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Most men do. My x used to work two computer screens, one with live porn and the other with some kind of gaming. As long as he keeps himself busy I would leave be. Better he do that than be out in the bars on the hunt! Most guys grow out of it, they are just curious.
What's the big deal? As long as he's not addicted to it and/or negelecting his responsibilities, I don't see the harm in it, and I think most men realize there's a reason they call them ACTORS....they fake a lot of that crap in porns. As long as he doesn't expect you to live up to that stuff (not that trying to emulate some of it wouldn't be fun, but like I said, as long as he doesn't expect you to be like them when they're faking it). I think it's fun to watch with someone sometimes, actually, get a little romp in.. As long as it's not CHILD porn...
Sorry but if your telling yourself that all men do it so you might as well too, its not true that all men look at porn. Some men have more respect then that.
I do think alot of men are selfish and endulgent enough to do this kind of thing inside a relationship when they KNOW it would upset their wife but not all men are like that.
What a crock..! I've been a man for 60 years, and I can tell you any man worth his testosterone looks at porn. Some more than others, but pick any man from your church or work place, and I'll assure you they look at porn...!
You may think you know men, but you just proved to the world of CD, you don't have a clue....
Ask your husband, if he hasn't left yet....
If doesn't involve little timmy and fido I don't see what the big deal is.
I don't get why chicks so angry over this crap. Women act as if once a man says "i do" his sexual urges disappear
No one expects sexual urges to disappear. What women expect is that men live up to their vows and forsake all others. That includes porn.
What I don't get is why men marry us if we're not what they want. If you want something different then go after it. Don't tell us we're the one for you and then sneak off to watch other women have sex.
What I don't get is why men marry us if we're not what they want. If you want something different then go after it. Don't tell us we're the one for you and then sneak off to watch other women have sex.
I think some of that might be mens *****/madonna sydrome??????
I think some of that might be mens *****/madonna sydrome??????
In other words, you have no clue what you really want
As a woman, I can say I don't like being compared to women in porn magazines or porn movies. If I wanted to be a porn actress, I'd be one. If that's what my husband wants, well, I guess he needs to go find one. I'm not it.
I think porn results in unrealistic expectations for a normal sex life. Watch enough of it and no woman could ever compete with his fantasies. I told my husband years ago to choose between porn or me. He couldn't have both. I don't go looking at nude men and comparing him to them. I expect the same treatment.
In other words, you have no clue what you really want
As a woman, I can say I don't like being compared to women in porn magazines or porn movies. If I wanted to be a porn actress, I'd be one. If that's what my husband wants, well, I guess he needs to go find one. I'm not it.
I think porn results in unrealistic expectations for a normal sex life. Watch enough of it and no woman could ever compete with his fantasies. I told my husband years ago to choose between porn or me. He couldn't have both. I don't go looking at nude men and comparing him to them. I expect the same treatment.
For me personally, I don't like the way women look in porn. They look like caricatures of females. Any guy that thinks porn sex is real is a bonehead.
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Can't blame him if you're freaking out on him for it.
He's doing something that is perfectly normal for men, and you're being a drama queen about it. Suck it up, buttercup. There's nothing wrong with it. I've walked in on my man many times when he's getting "busy" and it doesn't bother me in the least. If he's in the mood for me to join in, I do so happily. If not, then I either watch or I give him some alone time. It's no big deal.
Geez, then I guess I'll just have to live with being a drama queen, because I do not like my husband looking at porn, end of story. I don't blame the OP one bit for being pissed at her husband, especially for him lying about it when she's got evidence. I told my husband I don't want to see any porn sites popping up on my laptop's history, not only because I'm offended by it, but because I was told by a computer repairman that porn sites can f*** up your hard drive. So when I see evidence of porn on my computer, after I specifically stated I don't want anyone looking at it, I feel I have every right to be pissed off. If a man's got that much of a need for that crap, he can go buy a magazine-don't be ruining my laptop with it.
To the OP: You don't have to "put on your big-girl panties" and accept your husband's late-night online activities. He needs to put on his "big-boy briefs" and respect YOUR feelings by staying off the porn sites.
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As long as it's not CHILD porn...
