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Old 05-22-2010, 03:29 PM
 
Location: Hawaii
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And according to history most serial killers or rapists go after prostitutes, tramps, or people they are doing drugs with.......

wrong.

 
Old 05-23-2010, 12:40 AM
 
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And according to history most serial killers or rapists go after prostitutes, tramps, or people they are doing drugs with.......


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wrong.
NO RIGHT!
 
Old 05-23-2010, 06:26 AM
 
Location: Hawaii
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source?

I think that's a pretty disgusting thing to say.

Along with all the other people who say: don't dress slutty or leave your drink unattended and "you should be fine".
 
Old 05-23-2010, 07:26 AM
 
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source?

I think that's a pretty disgusting thing to say.

Along with all the other people who say: don't dress slutty or leave your drink unattended and "you should be fine".
CBC News In Depth: Crime


I don't know what happened to crime library. When TruTV bought it they ruined it. They had better sources back then.

I don't know what we are arguing really. But leaving your drink unattended is super stupid, man or woman. I haven't really seen dressing "slutty" hurt anyone...unless lewd comments are physically painful. Which, I'm not a woman, but I'm guessing they actually suck pretty bad.


**If you read the article...you'll see why a lot of the AntiWoman comments from the really young guys, are so worrying.
 
Old 05-23-2010, 07:52 AM
 
Location: Saudi Arabia
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Basic Instinct comes to mind lol .. ah come on ladies !
 
Old 05-23-2010, 08:07 AM
 
Location: Saudi Arabia
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Please dont squish my tender heart ... oops did i scare ya ..sowiee lol
 
Old 05-23-2010, 01:59 PM
 
Location: Hawaii
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Of course there are things you can do to make yourself less of an easy target. I'm arguing against the assertion that most of the victims of rape are drug users, tramps, and prostitutes and as long as you don't do those thing and aren't those things "you're probably good".
 
Old 05-24-2010, 10:14 AM
 
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I don't understand the whole concept of "creepy," because all of the guys I've known to have been called "creeps," "creepy" or "creepers" behind their back were normal, kind and honest guys who just weren't the smoothest or most talkative in a social situation.

Once, one of my friends was waiting outside of work for me, just occasionally looking in. One of my female coworkers said "There's this creepy guy standing out there and just looking in. What's the hell is wrong with him?" I told her that was my best friend and that he was waiting for me, and she said "Oh... sorry."

Another situation, I was at a party, and a two girls were talking to eachother while this guy was just standing quietly by one of their sides. When he left after a few seconds, 1 girl said "Wow, thank God he left. That guy was a total creeper." The other girl said "That's my boyfriend," and the other girl turned white.

So what gives ladies? Do you automatically assume that every guy who isn't much of a looker or a talker is going to stalk, rape and murder you?
To women all guys who they are not intrested in are creeps, and the thing is... women never get intrested in guys, so basicly all guys are desperate creeps.
 
Old 05-24-2010, 10:54 AM
 
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Ladies why do you find men creepy? I present exhibit A:

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To women all guys who they are not intrested in are creeps, and the thing is... women never get intrested in guys, so basicly all guys are desperate creeps.
Yeah, the world is just one big, fat, lesbian orgy party you weren't invited to, ain't it Foxy?.
 
Old 05-24-2010, 10:58 AM
 
Location: New England
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I don't understand the whole concept of "creepy," because all of the guys I've known to have been called "creeps," "creepy" or "creepers" behind their back were normal, kind and honest guys who just weren't the smoothest or most talkative in a social situation.

Once, one of my friends was waiting outside of work for me, just occasionally looking in. One of my female coworkers said "There's this creepy guy standing out there and just looking in. What's the hell is wrong with him?" I told her that was my best friend and that he was waiting for me, and she said "Oh... sorry."

Another situation, I was at a party, and a two girls were talking to eachother while this guy was just standing quietly by one of their sides. When he left after a few seconds, 1 girl said "Wow, thank God he left. That guy was a total creeper." The other girl said "That's my boyfriend," and the other girl turned white.

So what gives ladies? Do you automatically assume that every guy who isn't much of a looker or a talker is going to stalk, rape and murder you?

Ususally when it's said among my friends and me, we're just joking around. What makes someone creepy is mostly their vibe, and when a homeless man is giving you the rape glare, you can't help but label the guy creepy.

Another example happened just recently. I have a total crush on this guy I work with and I joke about how I want his kids and his last name sounds great with my first name, etc. (obviously, as a hilarious joke) They call me creepy... as I deserve to be called creepy.
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