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Old 06-30-2009, 08:58 PM
 
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Basically, met a girl at a restaurant. Got along with her. Exchanged numbers. Texted the next day. Hung out at the beach with her and her son the next day, playing soccer and eating ice cream. Next day played basketball. Im 24. Shes 28. He's 7. Something clicked with her from the minute I met her. I normally wouldn't go for someone I knew had kids but I was getting a great vibe. It's just weird that I am not dating her yet and I have already met her kid. I just want to know if she likes me. Any opinions?
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Old 06-30-2009, 09:00 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I'm probably gonna get bashed here for saying this, but I don't think she should have introduced you to her kid yet.

That doesn't seem like good judgment to me.


JMHO
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Old 06-30-2009, 09:00 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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What does what mean...?!
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Old 06-30-2009, 09:06 PM
 
Location: Orlando, FL
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Basically, met a girl at a restaurant. Got along with her. Exchanged numbers. Texted the next day. Hung out at the beach with her and her son the next day, playing soccer and eating ice cream. Next day played basketball. Im 24. Shes 28. He's 7. Something clicked with her from the minute I met her. I normally wouldn't go for someone I knew had kids but I was getting a great vibe. It's just weird that I am not dating her yet and I have already met her kid. I just want to know if she likes me. Any opinions?
How did she introduce you to her son?
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Old 06-30-2009, 09:07 PM
 
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I'm probably gonna get bashed here for saying this, but I don't think she should have introduced you to her kid yet.

That doesn't seem like good judgment to me.


JMHO

No I don't think it's good judgement either, but do you think it's a sign that she is into me or does she just introduce her to kid everyone she meets?
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Old 06-30-2009, 09:08 PM
 
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We met up at the beach and played soccer... Had ice cream and pizza afterwards.
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Old 06-30-2009, 09:08 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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Basically, met a girl at a restaurant. Got along with her. Exchanged numbers. Texted the next day. Hung out at the beach with her and her son the next day, playing soccer and eating ice cream. Next day played basketball. Im 24. Shes 28. He's 7. Something clicked with her from the minute I met her. I normally wouldn't go for someone I knew had kids but I was getting a great vibe. It's just weird that I am not dating her yet and I have already met her kid. I just want to know if she likes me. Any opinions?
It looks positive to me
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Old 06-30-2009, 09:09 PM
 
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No I don't think it's good judgement either, but do you think it's a sign that she is into me or does she just introduce her to kid everyone she meets?
Well you would do better to ask her, but my guess is that yeah, she has poor judgement and lets her kid meet anyone.
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Old 06-30-2009, 09:09 PM
 
Location: NW Montana
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I think it is too soon to be including her son. Especially at 7. Perhaps she just wanted you to know what you were getting into so you could run screaming into the night.
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Old 06-30-2009, 09:11 PM
 
Location: Orlando, FL
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We met up at the beach and played soccer... Had ice cream and pizza afterwards.
Maybe she was already planning on going to the beach and just told you to come along? I don't know....I've never been in that position so I can't say if that was bad judgment or not. Since she's young, she may have a lot of platonic male friends so it may not have seemed like a big deal for her or her son...you guys weren't making out in the sand were you?
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