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I mean, seriously, TIAM, instead of looking for ways to find out whether or not your spouse is cheating on you, why don't you invest your time in couple therapy WITH your husband?
IMO, a sudden interest in their appearance. A new hair style, new clothes. Private cell phone and e-mail accounts. Working extra, sudden need for work related travel. Becoming VERY upset when you ask, "is anything wrong"???
I mean, seriously, TIAM, instead of looking for ways to find out whether or not your spouse is cheating on you, why don't you invest your time in couple therapy WITH your husband?
IMO, a sudden interest in their appearance. A new hair style, new clothes. Private cell phone and e-mail accounts. Working extra, sudden need for work related travel. Becoming VERY upset when you ask, "is anything wrong"???
Because what I'm telling you is true. That spending time "figuring out" if he's cheating on you is no use. But, working on your marriage, via yourself or via therapy, works better. Not to mention.. do you REALLY want to know the other woman, if he really is cheating?
What on Earth gave you the inclination that he is cheating anyways?
Sure, you can sort of imagine that he may be cheating on you because of changes in appearances, etc. But that can also have other reasons too, and cheating is not the only reason why your hubby may be changing his looks.
So, do yourself a favor and do something positive by WORKING ON YOUR MARRIAGE, and stop doing the negative things .. you know, the snooping, the PI stuff...
I'm just curious to know what are some signs your husband might be cheating?
The usual. Coming home late, you can't see credit card receipts, you can see his cell phone, his behavior has changed, he acts youthful and vivacious when he hasn't in a while, you no longer can know where he goes all the time. He either gets nicer or abusive, acts guilty. Cheaters always lie but very often their lies give them away.
If he screeches out another man or woman's name when he is making out with you or when he is having a wet dream.
If he comes home late.
If he comes home with lipstick all over his face.
If he starts acting gay.
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