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Old 04-17-2007, 01:19 PM
 
Location: Area 51
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I m waiting for rance´s opinion...
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Old 04-17-2007, 01:20 PM
 
Location: Missouri
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I love being married. The trick is to marry someone you won't get bored of. I've know my husband for 6 years, and we've been married for a year and a half, and he still surprises me in some way almost every day. Never a dull moment with him. And definitely, "marital relations" are still exciting. You just have to find the right one.
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Old 04-17-2007, 01:26 PM
 
Location: Hopewell New Jersey
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christina0001 I'm glad you're very happy but 6 years?? Six years is NOT a long time. I've had affairs that lasted longer than that...
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Old 04-17-2007, 01:26 PM
 
Location: In exile, plotting my coup
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I wouldn't say that I don't "believe" in marriage because it is an institution that works well for many people, as many other posters in this thread have attested to. What I will say though is that I don't believe marriage is for me personally. I don't really have much interest in it and don't see the need.
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Old 04-17-2007, 01:30 PM
 
Location: Area 51
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I wouldn't say that I don't "believe" in marriage because it is an institution that works well for many people, as many other posters in this thread have attested to. What I will say though is that I don't believe marriage is for me personally. I don't really have much interest in it and don't see the need.
That´s all i want to hear.(read)
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Old 04-17-2007, 01:31 PM
 
Location: STL
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christina0001 I'm glad you're very happy but 6 years?? Six years is NOT a long time. I've had affairs that lasted longer than that...
Well, isn't that an accomplishment.
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Old 04-17-2007, 01:36 PM
 
Location: At work
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I don't believe its for everyone. And I don't believe it has to be done in one exact manner. Basically just like everything else you have to find what works best for the two of you. I will be getting married in the fall and I love my fiance but also like "me" time. One night a week we spend time with our same sex friends apart or just spend the night alone. At least for the two of us, I think if we were together all the time excluding work we would have some problems. We are both only children who like some independance. I view it as we are two individuals who want to share our lives together. I once saw an engagment card that said "Two souls, one thought". That is not how I see my future marriage. I think we both need our own thoughts! You get the drift of what I am saying. Different strokes for different folks.

And for the bedroom part of it all- must try new things, new places, new positions. New new new!! Once again, take the basic concept and personalize it!
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Old 04-17-2007, 01:45 PM
 
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Post there is no point

i think tht marriage is a waste of time...i don t need a dress cake and a party to tell some one i love them...i think weddings r a perfect point to show off wealth and popularity, not to mention what if it doesn t work out? i don t know about u but i happen to like the things i have i don t want to worry about losing my couch if my husband and i divorce. i think that we as humans r like every other animal on earth; and therefore having a relationship with one person for life goes against nature. but of course i m still young and unfamiliar to the world around
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Old 04-17-2007, 02:02 PM
 
Location: God's Country
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Im christian too.But i dont follow the bible word by word...The bible says a lot of things.Its a difficult book to understand it.
I prefer to live with different women in a free way.No laws, no responsability, no obligations.
I respect people who are married.I respect all the different ways of thinking.
But live free, without any kind of preoccupation is so good.

P.D:I hate my ex-wife.
You say you're a Christian yet you want to sleep around with a lot of women Some things in the Bible may be hard to understand but this is not one of them. But since you're only 22 I don't think marriage should be on your mind anyway.
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Old 04-17-2007, 02:04 PM
 
Location: STL
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You say you're a Christian yet you want to sleep around with a lot of women Some things in the Bible may be hard to understand but this is not one of them. But since you're only 22 I don't think marriage should be on your mind anyway.
I am 23 and been married for 2 years as of the 24th of this month.
Age has nothing to do with it, maturity and many other things.. but not age.
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