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I don't believe its for everyone. And I don't believe it has to be done in one exact manner. Basically just like everything else you have to find what works best for the two of you. I will be getting married in the fall and I love my fiance but also like "me" time. One night a week we spend time with our same sex friends apart or just spend the night alone. At least for the two of us, I think if we were together all the time excluding work we would have some problems. We are both only children who like some independance. I view it as we are two individuals who want to share our lives together. I once saw an engagment card that said "Two souls, one thought". That is not how I see my future marriage. I think we both need our own thoughts! You get the drift of what I am saying. Different strokes for different folks.
And for the bedroom part of it all- must try new things, new places, new positions. New new new!! Once again, take the basic concept and personalize it!
Hopefully you two can keep the same rules and values you have now. If you can it will be a perfect marriage. HOWEVER, MY ADVICE IS..You don't need mine or anyone elses...Good luck
I don't know if I believe in marriage. I think the jury is still out on this one. I have been with one guy for 11 years, with a "speed bump" in the middle. I don't know what marriage will do for us. I haven't been on the "other side" yet to know.
I am 23 and been married for 2 years as of the 24th of this month.
Age has nothing to do with it, maturity and many other things.. but not age.
That is wonderful. It's just to me anyway, it's hard to find someone mature enough at such a young age, but not impossible. It also to me seems that women mature at a younger age, not saying that men don't or can't.
That is wonderful. It's just to me anyway, it's hard to find someone mature enough at such a young age, but not impossible. It also to me seems that women mature at a younger age, not saying that men don't or can't.
That's true...
I think its great that friends my age are in relationships that are stable enough to handle marriage and kids.
Marriage is just like anything else you do, if you really want to make it work, it will.. but if you half a.ss it, that's the result you will get.
To North Carolina:
Bible its difficult to understand.
Bible says: Dont Kill
Bible says: Dont Steal
And bible says many things...
If you were a poor man, would you steal food to eat?Answer is simple:Eat or die.
If you were a soldier in a war, would you kill?The answer is simple:Kill or be killed.
Be christian its difficult.
Im a sinner.
If God dont forgive me, Ill burn in hell.But ill burn like a MAN.
I love women.I love have *** with them.But i dont believe in marriage.
Thats the way i think and nobody will change me.
I love the pleasure of be with a woman, but i dont want to care her when she fall ill or something...
I respect you, the only that i hope its that you respect me.
I repeat:I believe in Christ, but i am not a 100% follower.
To North Carolina:
Bible its difficult to understand.
Bible says: Dont Kill
Bible says: Dont Steal
And bible says many things...
If you were a poor man, would you steal food to eat?Answer is simple:Eat or die.
If you were a soldier in a war, would you kill?The answer is simple:Kill or be killed.
Be christian its difficult.
Im a sinner.
If God dont forgive me, Ill burn in hell.But ill burn like a MAN.
I love women.I love have *** with them.But i dont believe in marriage.
Thats the way i think and nobody will change me.
I love the pleasure of be with a woman, but i dont want to care her when she fall ill or something...
I respect you, the only that i hope its that you respect me.
I repeat:I believe in Christ, but i am not a 100% follower.
Hmmm. I think your feelings are somewhat normal for someone your age. I just hope that you are as religious with using BC as you claim to be about the Christian Bible.
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You get the drift of what I am saying. Different strokes for different folks. 
I have been with one guy for 11 years, with a "speed bump" in the middle. 
