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Old 07-27-2014, 11:05 AM
 
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After seeing one suspicious text from my best friend to my husband I researched a little more. Even though he deleted all the texts. I am able to get a bill from the phone company documenting every text back and fourth between them. In one month they sent over 1000 texts to each other. Please tell me I'm not crazy for accusing them of something going on behind my back. They are both telling me nothing inappropriate was ever sent. Need advice.
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Old 07-27-2014, 11:32 AM
 
Location: Islip,NY
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After seeing one suspicious text from my best friend to my husband I researched a little more. Even though he deleted all the texts. I am able to get a bill from the phone company documenting every text back and fourth between them. In one month they sent over 1000 texts to each other. Please tell me I'm not crazy for accusing them of something going on behind my back. They are both telling me nothing inappropriate was ever sent. Need advice.
try asking this question on the relationship forum.
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Old 07-27-2014, 12:25 PM
 
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If they aren't having an affair , sounds like its just a matter of time. It appears emotional /text affair has started .
You have every reason to be calling him out on this. I would throw down and say "I don't know whats going on but this better stop now " Also no locked phones , I would want access to the phone and email
NOTE - there is a chance they are planning some surprise for you and you could be blowing it ??
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Old 07-27-2014, 12:26 PM
 
Location: southern california
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the obvious is what we are most often reluctant to admit.
however to jump from talking to them to sleeping with them is a big jump.
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Old 07-27-2014, 12:29 PM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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Why would your spouse cheat?
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Old 07-27-2014, 12:38 PM
 
Location: Earth
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What did the suspicious text say? If not too personal or graphic, that gives a bit more.

But for now, I would say 1,000 texts in one month seems they are already close, and probably only a matter of time before the physical cheating starts.
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Old 07-27-2014, 12:41 PM
 
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That's a lot of texts to be sending to YOUR best friend.

Something is definitely off.
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Old 07-27-2014, 12:45 PM
 
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Discuss it with your spouse.
Be Straight up with it and confront the situation
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Old 07-27-2014, 12:45 PM
 
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Probably. Time to dig a little deeper.
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Old 07-27-2014, 12:46 PM
 
Location: Alameda, Ca
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I'd confront the best friend with the evidence. Once you find out, I'm wondering what type of excuse she could give you to explain it. The question would be, are there other reasons why he would cheat on a best friend of yours? Have you noticed changes of behavior? That's about the most arrogant person he could cheat with, other than a sister. 1000 texts in a month is a lot, I've only had that many with women I was seriously pursuing.
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