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Old 12-07-2009, 10:36 AM
 
Location: Del. County -right outside Phila.PA
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Why is it that the nice guys are always the second or third option for women? You would think that a person with most of the qualities that women preach about would be the first choice, it never happens like that. Can a woman explain this to me?

I believe you are mistaken on this one. Women DO want nice guys ~ they want to marry them and love'm up!
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Old 12-07-2009, 10:36 AM
 
Location: Houston/Heights
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Any one who has ever watched any Porn at all, knows just what Women really like, the rest is a front, to keep up Appearances.
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Old 12-07-2009, 10:57 AM
 
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Don't worry about it. There's a lot to be said for staying single. I can guarantee you one thing a woman will bring to your life.... complication. :-) I can also guarantee you no woman will magically transform your life into the fairy tale most people dream of in their youths.
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Old 12-07-2009, 11:16 AM
 
Location: Marion, IA
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Why is it that the nice guys are always the second or third option for women? You would think that a person with most of the qualities that women preach about would be the first choice, it never happens like that. Can a woman explain this to me?
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Any one who has ever watched any Porn at all, knows just what Women really like, the rest is a front, to keep up Appearances.
Essentially, woman say one thing but want another. Once you realize that things get so much easier.
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Old 12-07-2009, 12:41 PM
 
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Any one who has ever watched any Porn at all, knows just what Women really like, the rest is a front, to keep up Appearances.
Porn isnt reality. You can't judge all women based on what you see in a freaking porno. Those people have severe emotional problems.
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Old 12-07-2009, 12:49 PM
 
Location: Orlando, FL
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Why is it that the nice guys are always the second or third option for women? You would think that a person with most of the qualities that women preach about would be the first choice, it never happens like that. Can a woman explain this to me?

My bf is a nice guy. What he is not is a clingy, I'll-do-anything-for-you-even-though-I-barely-know-you, desperate guy with self-esteem issues.

I cannot stand a guy whose whole personality is designed to please me; 1 it's boring and 2; it's fake.
When I was in high school we used to call guys like that ducks.
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Old 12-07-2009, 02:40 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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Porn isnt reality. You can't judge all women based on what you see in a freaking porno. Those people have severe emotional problems.
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Old 12-07-2009, 02:44 PM
 
Location: Armsanta Sorad
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Don't worry about it. There's a lot to be said for staying single. I can guarantee you one thing a woman will bring to your life.... complication. :-) I can also guarantee you no woman will magically transform your life into the fairy tale most people dream of in their youths.
Many of these people have the mindset that they get with bad guys hoping they could change them.

There's a lot of complications in relationships.
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Old 12-07-2009, 03:30 PM
 
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I didn't read the reponses because I didnt want to see the same old cliches about "confidence". The bad boy culture is a symptom of a sick broken society that is in the process of breaking down. Bad boys are the root cause of every social problem and every ounce of misery that exists in this world.Women attracted to good decent men are highly evolved and civilized. Women attracted to bad boys have primitive brains and are driven by dark demonic influences.

I deleted the post below because it was a double post.
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Old 12-07-2009, 03:33 PM
 
Location: Houston/Heights
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Porn isnt reality. You can't judge all women based on what you see in a freaking porno. Those people have severe emotional problems.
What we do now is not reality. Everybody is just doing their best imitation of some movie they saw as a kid. there is no reality, just the perception of same.
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