Sex after a break-up (girlfriend, women, love, kid)
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Here is my story: I broke up with my ex girlfriend about a month ago and since we agreed to break up, we have not had any physical or sexual contact.
This afternoon, I came to her house and we went to the grocery store together. After we got back, I was feeling a bit horny and jokingly asked if she wanted to have sex, I was not expecting a positive response but she agreed to it and I was very surprised.
Anyways, I just got back from her house a few minutes ago and I kid you not, this was the best sex I have ever had in my entire life. When we were together, we would always argue over sex and we would go sometimes weeks without it because she has a low sex drive due to some health problems.
My dilemma is: We are oficially broken up and I really want to move on but the physical and emotional connection I felt today was very strong and I don't know what to do.
I don't think a relationship would work at this point because of our differences but I left her house very happy and satisfied, especially because I was not expecting it. Now,I am very confused and I wanted to understand why the sex this time was so good and so passionate, much more than we were officially in a relationship. Should we continue to have casual sex or NOT? I am just very confused right now
Here is my story: I broke up with my ex girlfriend about a month ago and since we agreed to break up, we have not had any physical or sexual contact.
This afternoon, I came to her house and we went to the grocery store together. After we got back, I was feeling a bit horny and jokingly asked if she wanted to have sex, I was not expecting a positive response but she agreed to it and I was very surprised.
Anyways, I just got back from her house a few minutes ago and I kid you not, this was the best sex I have ever had in my entire life. When we were together, we would always argue over sex and we would go sometimes weeks without it because she has a lox sex drive due to some health problems.
My dilemma is: We are oficially broken up and I really want to move on but the physical and emotional connection I felt today was very strong and I don't know what to do.
I don't think a relationship would work at this point because of our differences but I left her house very happy and satisfied, especially because I was not expecting it. Now,I am very confused and I wanted to understand why the sex this time was so good and so passionate, much more than we were officially in a relationship. Should we continue to have casual sex or NOT? I am just very confused right now
That's easy - because since you broke up and don't officially have anything to fight about or have stress over, you were just free to enjoy yourself.
This is also the same reason why sex is so good for people having affairs.
Because you have commitment issues. No strings sex after being sexless is not really that crazy to like anyway. People are willing to believe anything in times of desperation. (give you a dollar if you know what movie that is from) But its true.
How good does the first bite of a meal taste when you had not had anything all day. PDG.
Sex is just like that.
If you want to continue thats up to you. But that is not going to look good to future partners that you just bang the ex and live in the past.
Plus you have to remember that you parted ways for a reason. What if she ends up pregnant? What if she has another guy on the side and suddenly it burns when you pee?
Too much drama for me to go back to an ex even for sex. Move on to the next woman, have that exciting feeling of someone new again and the feelings for the ex will soon fade.
Here is my story: I broke up with my ex girlfriend about a month ago and since we agreed to break up, we have not had any physical or sexual contact.
This afternoon, I came to her house and we went to the grocery store together. After we got back, I was feeling a bit horny and jokingly asked if she wanted to have sex, I was not expecting a positive response but she agreed to it and I was very surprised.
Anyways, I just got back from her house a few minutes ago and I kid you not, this was the best sex I have ever had in my entire life. When we were together, we would always argue over sex and we would go sometimes weeks without it because she has a low sex drive due to some health problems.
My dilemma is: We are oficially broken up and I really want to move on but the physical and emotional connection I felt today was very strong and I don't know what to do.
I don't think a relationship would work at this point because of our differences but I left her house very happy and satisfied, especially because I was not expecting it. Now,I am very confused and I wanted to understand why the sex this time was so good and so passionate, much more than we were officially in a relationship. Should we continue to have casual sex or NOT? I am just very confused right now
LOL--this reminds me of the famous "Make-up Sex" episode from Seinfeld, where George went over to Elaine's to borrow one of her precious birth control "sponges" which she was hesitant to give him, since they had been discontinued.
George: "Elaine--you don't understand! This is Make Up Sex!"
You see a lot of guys on here who seem to want to call women names for having recreational sex beyond a solid committed relationships. I'm a firm believer in good fun NSA sex but as a guy we loose the right to call a woman a skank or worse when we start to do it.
I would never call a woman derogatory names for what your doing, so I hope you understand you've joined the guy ho club. Welcome aboard.
You see a lot of guys on here who seem to want to call women names for having recreational sex beyond a solid committed relationships. I'm a firm believer in good fun NSA sex but as a guy we loose the right to call a woman a skank or worse when we start to do it.
I would never call a woman derogatory names for what your doing, so I hope you understand you've joined the guy ho club. Welcome aboard.
Plus you have to remember that you parted ways for a reason. What if she ends up pregnant? What if she has another guy on the side and suddenly it burns when you pee?
Too much drama for me to go back to an ex even for sex. Move on to the next woman, have that exciting feeling of someone new again and the feelings for the ex will soon fade.
We were together for almost 6 years and we never had unprotected sex,actually, I am 32 and I have never had sex without a condom in my entire life. Also, there was no drama when we broke up, we broke up over small differences, we were simply not on the same page but the love is still there.
That's easy - because since you broke up and don't officially have anything to fight about or have stress over, you were just free to enjoy yourself.
This is also the same reason why sex is so good for people having affairs.
Exactly.
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Originally Posted by pitt_transplant
Because you have commitment issues.
Very likely...
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