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If the relationship has reached a point where I literally have to beg for sex, then it's time to re-evaluate our whole relationship, and possibly call it a day. Plus, I don't wanna have sex with someone who feel it's a chore - it puts me right off and I get turned off immediately.
Either way, my sex drive is pretty diabolical for someone my age so I doubt I'll have that problem.
Sounds like a very sad relationship. It would be a huge turn off for me if my SO told me something like "just get it over with". This goes back to the ridiculous idea that sex is something for men's enjoyment that women put up with. Sex should be freely give-if you don't think so than don't get married! This type of thinking can also lead to using sex as a weapon.
If that were a valid reason to not enter into matrimony....
Then some WOMEN should never get married...I'm just stating that sometimes it's the woman that has to beg for the sex (as sad & pathetic as that may sound)
If that were a valid reason to not enter into matrimony....
Then some WOMEN should never get married...I'm just stating that sometimes it's the woman that has to beg for the sex (as sad & pathetic as that may sound)
I concur with you That's not the type of relationship that I want....that's my current dilemma.
Now, I will agree that it's not just about the carnal pleasure (opps...can I say that on here?). To me, it's about the affection & intimacy...and I'd be lying if I said that it wasn't a little about the carnal pleasure (since my sex drive has always been diabolical )
But, I'm not going to beg for sex, affection or any other sort of intimacy.
And the Villagers gather, "so that explains why her mind is in the gutter most times "
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Originally Posted by Dorrans
If the relationship has reached a point where I literally have to beg for sex, then it's time to re-evaluate our whole relationship, and possibly call it a day. Plus, I don't wanna have sex with someone who feel it's a chore - it puts me right off and I get turned off immediately.
Either way, my sex drive is pretty diabolical for someone my age so I doubt I'll have that problem.
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That's not the type of relationship that I want....that's my current dilemma. 
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