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Old 01-31-2010, 05:08 PM
 
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Originally Posted by ♪♫♪♪♫♫♪♥ View Post
He was upfront and said "no marriage, no kids", which according to exhaustive linguistic research conducted by myself and my most esteemed colleagues in the social sciences, translates to "no marriage, no kids" . To the T.
The problem is that your summation of events isn't accurate. He said "no marriage, no kids." What he meant was "no marriage, no kids with you. But I hope you'll be a good sport enough to live with these terms till I find a woman for whom marriage and kids is doable."

I note others feel that this guy should be involved with his son. I am still trying to contemplate why.
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Old 01-31-2010, 05:20 PM
miu
 
Location: MA/NH
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Well that's great. Good to see that you choose a woman who feels the same way and talk with women before jumping into bed with them. Hopefully your both using protection since you both are adament about not wanting to get pregnant.

I hope none of the women in your life suddenly change their mind if they do get pregnant. It's part of public record now how you would murder the child without her consent.
Gee whiz... lighten up!!! How could TKramar possibly force any woman to get an abortion against her will? He is just being honest that he is not interested in having any offspring, even accidental ones.
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Old 01-31-2010, 05:41 PM
 
Location: 2nd state in the union...
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Gee whiz... lighten up!!! How could TKramar possibly force any woman to get an abortion against her will? He is just being honest that he is not interested in having any offspring, even accidental ones.
I think it was this comment that most are reacting to, miu - little different than the woman choosing to have an abortion.

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I won't ever have that problem. I'll induce a miscarriage if I have to...but no woman I'm with will deliver my child.
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Old 01-31-2010, 06:25 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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Let us all pray you have been snipped.
There's no need to submit myself to medical quackery. I haven't been to a doctor since 1988, when I joined the Navy.
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Old 01-31-2010, 07:02 PM
 
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There's no need to submit myself to medical quackery. I haven't been to a doctor since 1988, when I joined the Navy.
So you can perform this much-needed surgery on yourself?

Wow, what guts.
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Old 01-31-2010, 07:09 PM
 
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There's no need to submit myself to medical quackery. I haven't been to a doctor since 1988, when I joined the Navy.
Look, if you are so dead-set against having children, the only responsible thing for you to do is consider a permanent birth control solution. Abortion is NOT birth control, and with your mentality, it would be straight up murder.

Ditch the balls, bud.
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Old 01-31-2010, 07:36 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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Look, if you are so dead-set against having children, the only responsible thing for you to do is consider a permanent birth control solution. Abortion is NOT birth control, and with your mentality, it would be straight up murder.

Ditch the balls, bud.
Abortion is a perfectly acceptable form of birth control--what are you thinking?
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Old 01-31-2010, 07:37 PM
 
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Abortion is a perfectly acceptable form of birth control--what are you thinking?
I'm thinking I will be seeing you on dateline NBC one of these days.
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Old 01-31-2010, 08:17 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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I'm thinking I will be seeing you on dateline NBC one of these days.
I highly doubt it.
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Old 01-31-2010, 08:23 PM
 
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Abortion is a perfectly acceptable form of birth control--what are you thinking?
Then it's too bad you weren't born a woman, because only a woman can decide whether to have an abortion or not. Your opinion, legally, has nothing to do with it.
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