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Old 01-26-2010, 03:20 PM
 
Location: Crossville, TN
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I'd actually say this thread has outlived it's usefulness now ?
Much of the later stuff is actually probably counter-productive.
Ditto!
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Old 01-26-2010, 03:25 PM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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And this is probably the worst advice in this thread! Did you even read the OP's post? Over 18 years ago and you would contact the woman? really?
I couldn't agree more. Amazingly and stupidly ridiculous. This thread will probably go on for several more pages because many potential respondents will only read the initial post and ignore all the subsequent responses. Wha'?

Well, I guess they don't have much going for them where info-gathering and basic intellect is concerned. Too bad and too sad.

The OP has started to go to counseling, acknowledges that she probably has a problem so best to leave her alone for now and let this die down.
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Old 01-26-2010, 07:18 PM
 
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It's out in the open now. Perhaps to save all the drama, he SHOULD have kept it to himself. I bet that is what he will do from now on.
I agree... he should have kept his mouth shut.
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Old 01-26-2010, 07:23 PM
 
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Yes it was!!!!!!!! I feel so much better! This is HILARIOUS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 18 effin years!!!!!!!!!!!!!Good God!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Youth really is wasted on the young!!!!!! And as far as the OP thinking going back to church is going to help her..........any good preacher would say "WTF?" It was 18 years ago! Stop your sniveling and go home and fix the man some supper!"
The Capt. has a point.
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Old 01-26-2010, 07:26 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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I recently found out that my spouse had a sexual relationship with someone before we were married, and while we were broken up at the time. It all happened about 18 years ago.

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This is one example why marriage is over-rated.
I think you are overreacting.
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Old 01-26-2010, 07:40 PM
 
Location: down the shore
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Default He wants out

I do believe we have a saboteur in this relationship
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Old 01-26-2010, 07:40 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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I do believe we have a saboteur in this relationship
And it ain't HIM
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Old 01-26-2010, 08:20 PM
 
Location: down the shore
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And it ain't HIM

Oh nooo, not him.
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