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Old 01-28-2010, 07:50 PM
 
Location: pa
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been with my bf for 2 years - he is kinda old fashion - and 10 years older than me. Doesn't talk about sex - doesn't show affection - we really only have sex once a month. if you were him ( his type) would u consider it cheating if I went with a woman rather tahn a man???
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Old 01-28-2010, 07:50 PM
 
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I knew it!
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Old 01-28-2010, 07:51 PM
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its not cheating if i can watch
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Old 01-28-2010, 07:53 PM
 
Location: pa
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I knew it!

Knew what????
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Old 01-28-2010, 07:54 PM
 
Location: in the good ol' South
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Um, I'm confused. You mean, go out with a woman, in a sexual way? Or just as friends, for coffee, or something? If you are planning on doing or saying anything that you feel you have to hide from him, then yes, I'd say that's cheating.
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Old 01-28-2010, 07:55 PM
 
Location: south coast near Vancouver
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Yes, lol, it is. If he's old fashioned then he could very well take it very very badly. Does he know how you feel?


-Doug of thosemeninlove
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Old 01-28-2010, 07:55 PM
 
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Knew what????
Oh nothing, I just won a bet - with myself.
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Old 01-28-2010, 07:55 PM
 
Location: In my view finder.....
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Of course it's cheating........If you're in a committed relationship and you decide to have sex with another person without your boyfriend consenting( why would he?) than it's cheating.....


Where's SAZ when I need her......


Ron

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Old 01-28-2010, 07:57 PM
 
Location: somewhere close to Tampa, but closer to the beach
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LMFAO!!!!!! 12 brownie points for you Jays!!
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Old 01-28-2010, 08:00 PM
 
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been with my bf for 2 years - he is kinda old fashion - and 10 years older than me. Doesn't talk about sex - doesn't show affection - we really only have sex once a month. if you were him ( his type) would u consider it cheating if I went with a woman rather tahn a man???
Hell why in gods name are with in a situation that is not conducive for you? Don't give me that "he's a nice guy" crap neither.

Old fashioned my Ass! Sex is a very important part of a relationship Don't down play it. Don't lie to yourself about the situation. Why try to convince yourself that something is right when you know it's wrong.

Hit the bricks and find a man that is going to make a better mate for you.


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