men, please translate what was said to me (dates, younger, friend)
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Just curious, this is what has been said to me recently by my bf of less than 1 yr:
-In his experience, he will not find a better woman out there.
-I am a good girlfriend, that is why he is with me.
-He will not cheat or leave me for another woman, however, he will not commit to not meeting new female friends to communicate with (online, etc- NOT from personal ads or anything) becasue he likes to keep his options open. (WTF)
-Says there is no point to cheat or leave for another woman becasue all his relationships turn out the same.
translation, please?
You know what he's saying. You don't need us to tell you. Not really. Early 20's I dated a guy for 8 months. We were lookin at a tv show -- one of the guys on the show said, I don't want to date you -- I just want to see you. My ex looked at me and said, see that's what I want. I didn't say a thing. I knew what he was saying. I just didn't want to hear it.
He wants to be with you until something else comes along. This is the reason why his relationships end the same way ALL the time.
Just curious, this is what has been said to me recently by my bf of less than 1 yr:
-In his experience, he will not find a better woman out there.
-I am a good girlfriend, that is why he is with me.
-He will not cheat or leave me for another woman, however, he will not commit to not meeting new female friends to communicate with (online, etc- NOT from personal ads or anything) becasue he likes to keep his options open. (WTF)
-Says there is no point to cheat or leave for another woman becasue all his relationships turn out the same.
translation, please?
Only a bumbling idiot would say something like this to his girlfriend and not expect to be dumped at any moment. Tell him:
-He is a good enough boyfriend for the time being, that's why you're not in the porn industry yet.
-Ask him if he's willing to go in half and half on a Valtrex prescription.
-You should go ahead and test-f*** at least one of his friends, you know, to "keep your options open". See what's out there.
Only a bumbling idiot would say something like this to his girlfriend and not expect to be dumped at any moment. Tell him:
-He is a good enough boyfriend for the time being, that's why you're not in the porn industry yet.
-Ask him if he's willing to go in half and half on a Valtrex prescription.
-You should go ahead and test-f*** at least one of his friends, you know, to "keep your options open". See what's out there.
That last idea is just immature at best.
Last edited by yankeegirl313; 02-01-2010 at 01:28 PM..
Reason: removed offensive language
1. What's immature to you, is just proactive to me. If her bf is making his exit strategy so prominent and in-her-face, then it's only fitting that she do the same. If none of his friends are a good lay, then she can stay with her current bf for the time being.
2. It's not for revenge, how can she get revenge on him for something he hasn't done? This is strictly for testing purposes! Got to maintain some semblance of professionalism here, sheesh.
1. What's immature to you, is just proactive to me. If her bf is making his exit strategy so prominent and in-her-face, then it's only fitting that she do the same. If none of his friends are a good lay, then she can stay with her current bf for the time being.
2. It's not for revenge, how can she get revenge on him for something he hasn't done? This is strictly for testing purposes! Got to maintain some semblance of professionalism here, sheesh.
How the hell is f * c k i n g one of her boyfriend's friends proactive?? That is just opening a door for a whole lot of drama and - oh, wait. . . I'm one of those odd people that actually believe you should have sex with people you genuinely like!! Silly me!
How the hell is f * c k i n g one of her boyfriend's friends proactive?? It's proactive because when this guy eventually dumps her (and by his words, trust me he will, it's inevitable), she'll already have taken some steps necessary to find a rebound man. That is just opening a door for a whole lot of drama and - oh, wait. . . I'm one of those odd people that actually believe you should have sex with people you genuinely like!! Silly me! Yea, that is a little weird. You should call a hotline or something.
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