Your time frame in proceeding towards sex (dates, movies, women)
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I noticed there has been an increasing number of people who started having sex on either the first few dates of meeting that person or in only 1 month.
Even 1-2 months would be too fast for me. I'm rather slower and therefore will have the same time frame as it was with my ex b/f. For me, it would be 5 months later or more (depending on the trust level, not just physical attraction).
Currently I'm seeking friends but when the time comes for another relationship, it must be well-though out not ''Well, he's cute and we like each other, that's all it took for me to jump in''.
Is 5 months or more asking too much patience anyways? I noticed the number of patient men have reduced to the point, the movies and media messed up some people's minds. It's one thing if that's your personality but it's a difference if you changed suddenly because of a film or assumptions that if you don't move fast then there's no connection.
Lastly, how long till I find another patience man? I'm not into the ''waiting till marriage'' but I'm a ''Give it several months before jumping in''.
My first and only one night stand has turned into a 6 year relationship heading towards marriage. I thought I'd 'give it a try' since before I had always waited months before any type of hanky panky. Of course, I was usually broken up with because of waiting....but I digress.
I'd say a few months minimum for me if I were to date again. In fact, I probably wouldn't even get naked at all unless there was serious commitment on both ends.
Sorry but this isn't a new trend. Women and men have been hooking up for as long as I can remember in a relatively short amount of time. I'm one to wait unless I just want a piece of arse but I'm in a long relationship now and when I met him, we waited and we didn't have sex until about a month into the relationship. In past relationships, I've been pretty consistent. I'd rather get to know the person a little before taking it to that next level which tends to cloud judgment sometimes.
With that said, I am a red blooded female, there were times during my single life that I just wanted someone and I got what I wanted, no strings and that was fine.
Dude, get a ****ing hooker then. Jeeez, no girl in the right mind is going to sleep with a guy who non-stop ******* and moans how girls aren't dropping their panties because "betamanlets" are low on the totem pole.
Find a sleezy transexual prostitute in some run down slums and give her hell.
I don't have a predetermined time frame because one size does not fit all.
However, I do have an unspoken rule that I do not sleep with a guy until I can ascertain that I am genuinely interested in him and him in me. My goal isn't to rack up numbers in my little black book - quality over quantity.
Premeditated hookups don't do anything for me. Now, the spontaneous ones. . . those are debatable, but very dependent on the right time and place.
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