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Old 02-13-2010, 02:52 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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I read somewhere that these are the top 5:

Nagging
Lying
Drama Queen
Indecisiveness
Promise Breaking....
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Old 02-13-2010, 02:58 PM
 
Location: My Private Island
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I read somewhere that these are the top 5:

Nagging
Lying
Drama Queen
Indecisiveness
Promise Breaking....
I would say those make the top of my list (minus nagging and drama queen since those tend to be traits of women). My husband is very indecisive and it drives me crazy sometimes. I just make a decision and go...he takes forever and then second guesses...gggrrrrr My mother was a big promise-breaker and I hate that trait!! If I say I am going to do something, I stand by my word otherwise, I'm straight up and tell you I can't do it. Why is that so hard?
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Old 02-13-2010, 03:01 PM
 
Location: In my view finder.....
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I would say those make the top of my list (minus nagging and drama queen since those tend to be traits of women:rolleyes. My husband is very indecisive and it drives me crazy sometimes. I just make a decision and go...he takes forever and then second guesses...gggrrrrr My mother was a big promise-breaker and I hate that trait!! If I say I am going to do something, I stand by my word otherwise, I'm straight up and tell you I can't do it. Why is that so hard?

Men are the biggest DRAMA Queens ever.......I manage a Men Only shelter. Trust me on this.
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Old 02-13-2010, 03:04 PM
 
Location: Verde Valley AZ
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I read somewhere that these are the top 5:

Nagging
Lying
Drama Queen
Indecisiveness
Promise Breaking....
People who think I can read their mind.
Constantly have to know what I'm thinking.
Stubborn and closed minded/always right.
Takers who don't know how to give, or don't want to.
People who hold grudges.
Don't trust me because of what someone else did to them in the past.
Liars and cheats are high on my pet peeve list too.


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Old 02-13-2010, 03:09 PM
 
Location: Southeast Arizona
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If there is one thing in this world that grates my nerves more than anything else it is liars. When I figure out their game I can't stand them. I just experienced this first hand yesterday and I am still solid in my beliefs that liars->not worthy of my time or company.
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Old 02-13-2010, 03:29 PM
 
Location: Nashville, Tn
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One trait that would definitely be high on the list for me is someone who is moody. For some reason my moods don't seem to change very much and I'm generally very friendly and upbeat. I hate even being around people who go through episodes of being grouchy for no apparent reason and I wouldn't even consider a relationship with someone like that.
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Old 02-13-2010, 04:23 PM
 
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I read somewhere that these are the top 5:

Nagging
Lying
Drama Queen
Indecisiveness
Promise Breaking....
All of these including two big ones for me. Honesty and loyalty. I can't have a criminal for a SO. I will be the loyal man but I have always required she be the loyal woman also!
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Old 02-15-2010, 02:44 PM
 
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Nagging =/= love. Women who nag are not in love with you, and have no respect for you. It's one thing if you're a lazy ass which she should just leave you, but the nagging is just plain unacceptable.

Lying - I put up with it once for way too long, if you can't trust him/her, then you have no relationship.

Drama Queen - Depends if it's with me or not. If she's a drama queen among her lady friends, but is always cool with me and my friends, then I don't have a problem with it.

Indecisiveness - I'm sure gets annoying, but where it only is a real problem is when she can't decide about YOU. I feel like petty indecision can be cured with a man who can sack up and just make a decision.

Promise Breaking - I don't require promises from my SO's, only that if we agree to be exclusive I expect them to uphold it. If they say they're going to do something or be somewhere then I expect them to do it. But I don't FORCE anyone into promising something they really didn't want to do in the first place.
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Old 02-15-2010, 02:47 PM
 
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Men are the biggest DRAMA Queens ever.......I manage a Men Only shelter. Trust me on this.

I work with mostly all men, and I agree, men are 10x the drama queens women could ever dream to be.
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Old 02-15-2010, 02:50 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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I work with mostly all men, and I agree, men are 10x the drama queens women could ever dream to be.
Sorry..but this is funny!
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