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... My husband likes to try several different positions over a long period of time.
Hell, that's the oldest trick in the books for men to last longer. Limit the position switching. Sounds like he's into enjoying the trip more than getting to the destination.
There are numbing gels you can use but remember if you use them on yourself, they will also numb him therefore taking even longer for him to climax. When my dh takes longer than I would like, I always switch over to a BJ and it does the job.
No condoms, I'm on the pill, and we are married, so not worried about STDs lol.
WyoNewk - He has no problem reaching orgasm, he just prefers love making to last a long time. Nothing wrong with that. Lately its been barley 10 minutes , my fault. He finishes quickly only because he know how easy I get sore. And we don't make love to just get it over with. We both take the time and enjoy the closeness and intimacy.
I usually "pop" within the first 1 or 2 positions. He just has a way of making me go Oooo Ooo OOO
another_hot-day - Actually I quite often and "go" 2 times, sometimes even 3. Bot my body has limits. Maybe there is a numbing lube that will slow things down for me?
There is such a thing for women....you could go to slumberparties.com, or look for a rep in your area that sells those things.
I had a party last year, and that's how I know...BTW - the party was a blast, best girls night in a long time.
Or, you could visit a local adult store (if you're comfortable) to see if they carry something like that.
... Maybe there is a numbing lube that will slow things down for me?
But it'll slow him down too.
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Originally Posted by FutureBettyCrocker
... He can "get off" at anytime, he has great control of that, but he like it to laaaaast a long time.
Ahhhhhhhhhhhhh... Now I understand. Just tell him you'd like it to last forever too, but he's just so HUGE that you can't take it that long. At least he'll get an ego boost that way.
We've never been the types to go at it for an hour either. I prefer shorter, more frequent sessions.
Anyhow, like you, I've never had an issue "getting there" so I guess I'm also lucky. Most of the time I can 'get there' in 30 seconds if I try, I swear. I also get sore because of...ermm...our conflicting anatomies.
The thing is, my husband like them short and often too, so I don't know how to tell you to make it better. I know sometimes that vibrators can 'numb' you a bit down there if used before sex...perhaps trying that?
I personally would speak to my doctor and have a very candid conversation about the problems you are going through and see what they have to say. We can throw out all kinds of ideas but this sounds like a physical problem to me which would be better addressed by a doctor.
Lindsey_Mcfarren - Yeah I dont think its a medical problem or something I would talk to my doctor about. It's plainly obvious; my cha cha is too small, his ding dong is too big. Simple science. lol
thepinksquid - Love the idea of more frequent, and short sessions. But that is great for me, not so great for him. I would still not be fulfilling his need for hour long love making.
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