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Old 12-02-2012, 10:33 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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Doesn't oral sex before vaginal sex help him to reach orgasm quicker?

 
Old 12-02-2012, 10:41 AM
 
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I think its a blessing OP, at least the fact that you can climax quickly. My current gf is this way too, and it literelly takes her 3 minutes to orgasm. With that said, she doesnt mind multiplke orgasms in a session, so more often than not she will have 3 or 4 (sometimes 8) before I even get close. Most think of your situation as a blessing, and most women I know arent exactly done and completely satisfied after 1 orgasm.
 
Old 12-02-2012, 11:45 AM
 
Location: Lansing, MI
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OP's husband needs to be mindful of his size vs her frame if it is causing soreness in the long run, and it his job to accommodate. Could try to not have him fully enter, work her up to the point of orgasm, and then pull out so she calms down, then repeat. Keep her on the brink of orgasm, and then he doesn't fully enter until they are ready to really wrap things up.
 
Old 12-02-2012, 11:58 AM
 
Location: Australia
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Or, he could just stop hammering away at her for hours.

He could help himself along before/during/after instead of treating her vagina like a penis punching bag.

OP he needs to stop. If you're not into it, it's rape. Being pounded at for a long time is not only uncomfortable and the opposite of intimacy, it can also cause physical problems such as bladder infections and abrasions.

You don't need to change, he does.
 
Old 10-08-2013, 03:10 AM
 
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I am curious if anyone has found at least a good 30 minute delayer to this problem. My fiance and I are having difficulty with this. She lasts a good 10-20 minutes and it bums her out because she feels terrible about it. I just want her to not get sore so easily and to not feel sore for so long. I just don't want her in a huge amount of pain is what I'm getting at I suppose. I don't mind her not lasting long, I just don't like seeing her in a painful position whenever we are getting ready to sleep.
 
Old 10-08-2013, 04:29 AM
 
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Originally Posted by dragon_fly_12 View Post
OP's husband needs to be mindful of his size vs her frame if it is causing soreness in the long run, and it his job to accommodate. Could try to not have him fully enter, work her up to the point of orgasm, and then pull out so she calms down, then repeat. Keep her on the brink of orgasm, and then he doesn't fully enter until they are ready to really wrap things up.
i'd go with this- (above)

if nothing else works... saddle up and "accidently" fall backwards this will put a crimp in the pipe, and slow him down for a while


talk to him, let him know its causing you pain-he will back off- tell him you want to synchronize and be done together


there is one lube (dont know the name) that is really hot, and he'll want to be done asap
 
Old 10-08-2013, 02:41 PM
 
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First I hope I'm in the right place, if not this is really embarrassing!

I am a happily married women, but I don't last very long in bed. My husband could go at it for an hour or more, but I'm easily satisfied within the first 10 minutes, and if I go much more after that I get sore. Yes we have tried using several different lubes to help with that, not much luck and I still need at least 24 hours in between love making to "heal". Now we don't go at it all crazy and rough, but I'm a very small framed women (5' 3") and he is very well endowed. Lets just say the parts don't exactly fit and take some time to interlock, sort of speak. This is quite embarrassing so please bear with me. So overall, what can I do to make myself last longer rather then reach orgasm within the first few minutes.
Enjoy it. Most women don't have big-penised men that don't get their women across the finish line in 8-10 minutes (if at all).

Lot of men don't have >6" penises or last longer than 5 minutes themselves.
 
Old 10-08-2013, 07:49 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Enjoy it. Most women don't have big-penised men that don't get their women across the finish line in 8-10 minutes (if at all).

Lot of men don't have >6" penises or last longer than 5 minutes themselves.
Haha.
 
Old 10-08-2013, 09:21 PM
 
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Wow. I bet most men would kill to have a woman with this problem (being easily satisfied in a few minutes.
 
Old 10-08-2013, 10:44 PM
 
Location: Buenos Aires, Argentina
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Provide him with a mistress. Then he could have sex with you for a little while and then go with the mistress for a little while and the 3 of you will be happy
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