Weird dating relationship:NEED ADVICE (girl, friends, romantic, average)
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Maybe she's telling her friends, "he hasn't even tried to kiss me. I wonder if he likes me?" She wouldn't be texting you if she wasn't interested, but she might be traditional and is letting you take the lead.
$@#$!@#$. Where were you on your escalation? Touch, hand holding, hug, kiss? Where? If you get three indication of interest (IOI), you should escalate. It looks to me you got 300 IOIs and you didn't do anything.
So what she wants to go on a trip with you? That's a strong IOI that implies having sex. Unless you are not interested in her in that way.
I tell you why she doesn't call you. Because you are not Brad Pitts or whoever that is hot, rich and famous. It is the man's job to call. Plain and simple.
You're overthinking this thing...just take her to San Antonio with you and have fun!
Well she wants to go to San Antonio because she likes roller coasters and wants to go to Fiesta Texas. Believe me I would like to get "physical" with her but at the same time I don't want to be thinking that I am going to get something and then the opposite happens. Oh and the sex part will not be easy either, especially since she doesn't drink.
Let me tell you about my first dating experience after a 10+ year hiatus. I worked in the city and rode a commuter bus to work every day. I struck up a conversation with this guy, and every day we would sit on the bus and talk on the way home from work. One day he asked me out. We had a great time, and at the end of the date there was not goodbye kiss, just a hug, which was okay with me.
We got together an average of 4-5 times per week for movies, dinner, outdoor activities. This went on for over a month, with no moves made by him other than a hug. I started wondering if something was wrong with me or if he was just wanting to keep it platonic. There was no way I was going to make a move, as I figured after so many dates, if he was interested romatically he would have already made a move. He eventually did make a move and I was quite relieved!
I would think this woman is not the type to be calling men or making the first move. As others have said, step your game up!!!
Don't breathe hard when hugging her. Slow it down. lean in slowly for the hug. hug her, rub her back. Lean back slowly, look her in the eyes and just kiss her.
$@#$!@#$. Where were you on your escalation? Touch, hand holding, hug, kiss? Where?
We are in a friendly hug, goodbye cheek kiss point
If you get three indication of interest (IOI), you should escalate. It looks to me you got 300 IOIs and you didn't do anything.
So what she wants to go on a trip with you? That's a strong IOI that implies having sex. Unless you are not interested in her in that way.
Please see my post below.
I tell you why she doesn't call you. Because you are not Brad Pitts or whoever that is hot, rich and famous. It is the man's job to call. Plain and simple.
I know I am not Brad Pitt...but heck after calling someone 10 times, you would expect for them to call you at least ONCE if they really are interested in you.
Well she wants to go to San Antonio because she likes roller coasters and wants to go to Fiesta Texas. Believe me I would like to get "physical" with her but at the same time I don't want to be thinking that I am going to get something and then the opposite happens. Oh and the sex part will not be easy either, especially since she doesn't drink.
Wow, where to start? Ok, for one thing, you should be using this as a perfect opportunity to enjoy one another's company at the amusement park and Fiesta. What better way to interact with someone and have fun? You seem to have a predatory attitude towards sex. Relax, enjoy her company and have fun. If she digs you then eventually the sex will come. But if you act like a wolf with your tongue hanging out of your mouth waiting for her to spread her legs, she'll read you like an open book and you won't be getting any for a long time.
If you feel you need to get a few drinks in a girl or yourself in order to get laid, you're not getting it...figuratively and literally.
If she is an American woman in her 30s, and she invites herself to San Antonio with you, she has to be thinking that "something" could happen. And she must want it to happen, or she wouldn't suggest coming along. So, make a move already! She's obviously waiting......
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