I'm not emotional and seem cold (date, girls, love, personalities)
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This is what i've been told by men on several occassions. It just takes more that 3 dates for me to warm up to a person. I have a quiet personality anyway. I don't get it? Do most men like gregarious type of women? If so I don't have a chance because I'm the more reserved and subdued type. I guess I better start stocking up on kitty litter.
This is what i've been told by men on several occassions. It just takes more that 3 dates for me to warm up to a person. I have a quiet personality anyway. I don't get it? Do most men like gregarious type of women? If so I don't have a chance because I'm the more reserved and subdued type. I guess I better start stocking up on kitty litter.
3 dates to warm up to a person? yeah that is a long time. if a girl doesn't have a fun personality on the first date, or if we don't have some chemistry, then I typically won't ask her for a second date.
btw, emotional and cold are two totally different issues.
This is what i've been told by men on several occassions. It just takes more that 3 dates for me to warm up to a person. I have a quiet personality anyway. I don't get it? Do most men like gregarious type of women? If so I don't have a chance because I'm the more reserved and subdued type. I guess I better start stocking up on kitty litter.
I think you should find somebody who likes cold and unemotional women. There are people like that, out there.
This is what i've been told by men on several occassions. It just takes more that 3 dates for me to warm up to a person. I have a quiet personality anyway. I don't get it? Do most men like gregarious type of women? If so I don't have a chance because I'm the more reserved and subdued type. I guess I better start stocking up on kitty litter.
Honestly, there's nothing wrong with that. How much do you really know about a person after three dates anyway? Especially if any of those dates was dinner and a movie. Not much interaction going on during a movie or while eating a meal. If you're goal is a long term relationship then don't compromise your standards for anyone. Eventually you'll meet someone who is right for you, but you have to get out there.
As to what most men like. Well, who cares? Don't try to morph yourself into what they want if it isn't who you are. Be yourself and find somoene who is a good fit for you. May take awhile, but it's better than settling for someone who you really aren't compatible with.
This is what i've been told by men on several occassions. It just takes more that 3 dates for me to warm up to a person. I have a quiet personality anyway. I don't get it? Do most men like gregarious type of women? If so I don't have a chance because I'm the more reserved and subdued type. I guess I better start stocking up on kitty litter.
I'm not even that warm after living with the other person. But I'm a man so it is seen as more acceptable for me to not express any emotions. I've still had some make the complaint.
This is what i've been told by men on several occassions. It just takes more that 3 dates for me to warm up to a person. I have a quiet personality anyway. I don't get it? Do most men like gregarious type of women? If so I don't have a chance because I'm the more reserved and subdued type. I guess I better start stocking up on kitty litter.
This is what you've been told by JERKS on several occasions. Really, what nerve!
Okay, now I wasn't there and I don't know the specifics, but in my experience, I've found that any man who has the nads to say that to a woman is somehow intimidated, frustrated, or threatened by her. They can't figure you out, so they have to slap a negative label on you.
The day will come when a man appreciates your personality. He won't see it as cold. He'll see it as self-possessed.
Not really. Telling a woman she seems "cold" is an extraordinarily rude thing to do, especially within the first three dates. How dare some guy who doesn't even know her say something like that? He's either a jackarse in general, or he feels compelled to lash out for some reason. Unless she laughed upon seeing a kitten get run over by a truck, there is no justification for it.
So I see it as a self-defense mechanism. "She's not fawning over me? She's not batting her lashes at me? She's not giggling with merriment and glee simply because she's in my oh-so-wonderful presence? SHE MUST BE COLD."
And not for nothing, but in my own experience, it usually comes from toads who get annoyed upon learning, one way or another, that they aren't going to get any physical action that evening.
Not really. Telling a woman she seems "cold" is an extraordinarily rude thing to do, especially within the first three dates. How dare some guy who doesn't even know her say something like that?
she said that "men" have told her this before, not her date. for all you know she's talking about grandpa.
she said that "men" have told her this before, not her date. for all you know she's talking about grandpa.
I doubt it. But lemme tellya, a grandpa is the last man any woman should be taking dating advice from!
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