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Sierra says I should consider it since I need companionship sometimes but most of the time prefere to be alone in my own hobbies and stuff, but I would prefere a friend with benefits situation where there is friendship involved also.
Although my latest FWB has like my ultimum body I like but is a psycho, who gets weird and annoying when she drinks and she likes to drink. Too bad because the sight of her makes me lust.
I don't have much of an opinion about it, other than it's a weird thing to discuss with your friends or family. It doesn't seem like the kind of thing most people would talk about, not to the point where one person would usually have any idea that a friend of his father's likes to get hookers off Craigslist.
I don't care about men who do that. To each his own.
That said, I have to chuckle at some of the men here chastising women for being judgmental. In the minds of many people, prostitution is associated with exploitation, and being turned off by a husband or boyfriend who has used such services is an understandable reaction. These men may bash "nice girls" and extol the virtues of escorts all they want, but they are hypocrites too. If and when they decide they want to get married or enter into a long-term relationship, most of these men would rather chew their limbs off than marry a former escort. In the end, if they go for a long-term future with anyone, it's almost always with the much-maligned "nice girl".
Substantively what kind of a difference is there in sexual histories between someone who accepts money for sex and someone who does not? In the post- Jerry Springer age, what exactly does it now mean to be a nice girl? Modernly women have lengthy sexual histories.
Because men emit and women receive bodily fluids in the sex act, females are more likely than males to acquire a social disease from a one night stand, which means the costs are greater for women. As such on any given night there are more men looking for short term liaison than women. Because the supply and demand imbalance women can usage get some sort of favor for agreeing to engage in short term sex, either food, booze, gifts or money.
But I thought we got past the entire notion of good girls and bad girls with regard to sexual histories. There are no good girls and there are no bad girls. There are just girls with sexual histories.
Unless she is a streetwalker or some cheap hooker most prostitutes have a vested interest in maintaining their sexual health and are fastidiously tested for diseases. A decent prostitute is probably cleaner than your average 'nice girl'.
That is so true. Most of the nice girls don't use contraception other than the pill and never get tested. Most prostitutes do.
I don't care about men who do that. To each his own.
That said, I have to chuckle at some of the men here chastising women for being judgmental. In the minds of many people, prostitution is associated with exploitation, and being turned off by a husband or boyfriend who has used such services is an understandable reaction. These men may bash "nice girls" and extol the virtues of escorts all they want, but they are hypocrites too. If and when they decide they want to get married or enter into a long-term relationship, most of these men would rather chew their limbs off than marry a former escort. In the end, if they go for a long-term future with anyone, it's almost always with the much-maligned "nice girl".
What do you guys think of guys like these who use escorts and the "services" they provide
Do you see these men as desperate, losers, sex addicts, what?
This got me thinking because one of my father's friends uses escorts quite frequently and prefers to stay a bachelor (at the age of 57 )
what do u guys think of men like these?
I would say he knows what he wants.
Not everyone is meant to be married.
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since I need companionship sometimes but most of the time prefere to be alone in my own hobbies and stuff, but I would prefere a friend with benefits situation where there is friendship involved also.