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Old 04-19-2010, 07:41 PM
 
Location: Wicker Park, Chicago
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What do You Do When You're Bored and Want to Meet People? - This question has 3 answers based on the 3 cities I lived in.

Bowling Green, KY - only thing to do was hit Barnes & Noble after work. The city shopping mall was small but ok. Or grocery shop at SuperWalmart.

Houston - mostly hit the grocery store or Barnes & Noble to hang out in the cafe. I'd hit the malls on the weekend hoping to run into a pretty enough woman.

Chicago - living in Wicker Park I can take a bike ride to see people or hang around Wicker Park Park. Grocery shop or go to Barnes & Noble. Hit the malls on weekends. Can run into people when working out on Lake Shore Drive.

Otherwise I don't hang out in bars or Starbuck's. I hate beer and Starbuck's coffee is too expensive. I don't like dancing or staying up late so I often don't go to nightclubs.

I must be boring... Gimme ideas on where to meet people!
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Old 04-19-2010, 07:45 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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I just walk out the door - I never fail to meet someone when I want to.
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Old 04-19-2010, 07:47 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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Dance lessons
Theater group
College courses
Outdoor groups
Volunteering
Cooking classes
Museums
Galleries
Zoo/Aquarium

Anything that is interactive. Book stores are not ideal since everyone has their faces buried in a book. Starbucks is not ideal either...faces buried in laptops, ipods plugged in, or already paired up with friends.
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Old 04-19-2010, 07:49 PM
 
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I like that all of your scenarios involve Barnes and Noble. Does that work? Maybe I should try it....I'd probably spend a fortune on books though!
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Old 04-19-2010, 07:52 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Go on the internet and type in Your City (whatever it is) Meet Up.com

There are meetup groups in every city for everything imaginable - hiking, running, biking, bird watching, book reading, bowling - you name it.

If you don't have a particular interest to look for, pick a new one you want to know more about and show up!
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Old 04-19-2010, 07:55 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I just walk out the door - I never fail to meet someone when I want to.
Haha.....what and get fresh air....not way!
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Old 04-19-2010, 07:58 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Haha.....what and get fresh air....not way!
Seriously, I meet new people EVERYWHERE I go because I put myself out there. All I have to do is walk out my door
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Old 04-19-2010, 08:12 PM
 
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join a club or a group
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Old 04-19-2010, 08:12 PM
 
Location: Wicker Park, Chicago
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I've gone to an event like Chicago's Bike the Drive and I didn't even make one friend out of the 10,000 or so people there. So if it weren't for my mom and aunt that keep me company I'd be a lonely bored man in life. I fear my future is loneliness when I get old because I have no wife in my life...
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Old 04-19-2010, 08:31 PM
 
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What do You Do When You're Bored and Want to Meet People? - This question has 3 answers based on the 3 cities I lived in.

Bowling Green, KY - only thing to do was hit Barnes & Noble after work. The city shopping mall was small but ok. Or grocery shop at SuperWalmart.

Houston - mostly hit the grocery store or Barnes & Noble to hang out in the cafe. I'd hit the malls on the weekend hoping to run into a pretty enough woman.

Chicago - living in Wicker Park I can take a bike ride to see people or hang around Wicker Park Park. Grocery shop or go to Barnes & Noble. Hit the malls on weekends. Can run into people when working out on Lake Shore Drive.

Otherwise I don't hang out in bars or Starbuck's. I hate beer and Starbuck's coffee is too expensive. I don't like dancing or staying up late so I often don't go to nightclubs.

I must be boring... Gimme ideas on where to meet people!
Do you want honest answers or do you want me to lie?LOL........
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