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Old 05-12-2010, 05:07 AM
 
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Does being promiscuous automatically labels you as a potential cheater?
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Old 05-12-2010, 05:13 AM
 
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It does is the person was promiscuous while in a relationship with someone. Otherwise, not necessarily.
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Old 05-12-2010, 07:00 AM
 
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Would I pump & dump or go for a FB situation? Sure. Would I enter into a long term monogamous relationship? Not even if you paid me. It's a well documented fact that promiscuous people have a hard time with long term monogamous relationships and are far more prone to cheating and being less satisfied with only one partner over the long run. I just don't see founding a relationship with that type of person as being a wise move, not to mention all the well justified looking over your shoulder and uncertainty it'll cause. That's no way to form and maintain a relationship.
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Old 05-12-2010, 07:04 AM
 
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Would I pump & dump or go for a FB situation? Sure. Would I enter into a long term monogamous relationship? Not even if you paid me. It's a well documented fact that promiscuous people have a hard time with long term monogamous relationships and are far more prone to cheating and being less satisfied with only one partner over the long run. I just don't see founding a relationship with that type of person as being a wise move, not to mention all the well justified looking over your shoulder and uncertainty it'll cause. That's no way to form and maintain a relationship.

So basically, you are promiscuous, but would not want a LTR with someone like yourself.

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Does being promiscuous automatically labels you as a potential cheater?
I believe you either have potential to cheat or not. Dosent matter what your past sexual experience have been. Well, except if you have been a cheater.
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Old 05-12-2010, 07:07 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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I think "promiscuous" is a very subjective word. Especially when applied to females. What makes a man a stud seems to make a woman promiscuous. As I tend to make up my own mind about things, I would date her and see what happens. Wouldnt be fair to her to just take some guys word for it.
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Old 05-12-2010, 07:07 AM
 
Location: Austin
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Hmmm, I used to be promiscuous but have only been with my husband for the past 9 years and still have no desire to be with anyone else.
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Old 05-12-2010, 07:49 AM
 
Location: Oxford, England
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No. To me it is not a great sign of emotional stability. It is someone's prerogative to be promiscuous and it is not up to me to judge them but I would see it as a huge warning sign that the relationship was likely to flounder.
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Old 05-12-2010, 07:55 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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No. To me it is not a great sign of emotional stability. It is someone's prerogative to be promiscuous and it is not up to me to judge them but I would see it as a huge warning sign that the relationship was likely to flounder.
So what if your only "proof" that she is promiscuous comes from some guy she turned down for a date and he is just spreading rumors because he's mad at her for turning him down? Guys do this all the time. You wouldnt even give her the benefit of the doubt and find out for yourself?
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Old 05-12-2010, 07:57 AM
 
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No. Promiscuity is a huge turnoff to me.
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Old 05-12-2010, 08:00 AM
 
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promiscuity is also a turn off for me, but not because i think "cheater", it's cause i think "dirty", "overused"
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