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Old 05-19-2010, 08:43 PM
 
Location: Tha 6th Bourough
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I don't get it...people somehow think I'm a bad guy when the woman who left this dude never came back for her stuff, and all I said was why not give it to a new girl in your life. Then in the spirit of fun I added on to how I personally would see the conversation going down kinda trying to make the guy feel better by joking about some new chick he might meet...people seem to not get my intentions. If the mods wanna ban me for it then I guess it's what they can do whenever they hate someone because they have the power, but I'm just a pawn on here speaking my mind and trying to encourage the OP even if he or someone made him feel like I wasn't
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Old 05-19-2010, 11:57 PM
 
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Post an ad on craigslist that it is on your driveway and free to anyone who wants it. Forward it to her. If she wants to come get it, she can, if not, hopefully someone else gets it out of your hair.
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Old 05-20-2010, 12:27 AM
 
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Sell the stuff and you and the DOG take a vacation and send her a card saying :having a great time and glad you arent here,,lol Or for fast results tell her SHE CANT HAVE THE MUTT BACK UNTIL SHE GETS HER STUFF
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Old 05-20-2010, 01:23 PM
 
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Did you check your divorce papers or the law in your state. In my divorce, it was written we had 60 days to get our stuff after the divorce. The divorce drug out 18 months in which time he avoided any contact with me but I took several of his things to him. About 70 days after the divorce, he call about a few of the things he hadnt gotten. I said sorry charlie, we are done and sold them.
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Old 05-24-2010, 10:55 AM
 
Location: Lyon, France, Whidbey Island WA
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...........and the update is?
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Old 05-24-2010, 11:03 AM
 
Location: Fort Wayne
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Have it delivered to her and move on w/ your life.
Anybody on here telling you to sell it is telling you to potentially be arrested for trafficking in stolen merchandise or being sued by her disposing of her personal items.

It may cost you a few dollars...but how much is peace of mind worth?
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Old 05-24-2010, 11:06 AM
 
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Have it delivered to her and move on w/ your life.
Anybody on here telling you to sell it is telling you to potentially be arrested for trafficking in stolen merchandise or being sued by her disposing of her personal items.

It may cost you a few dollars...but how much is peace of mind worth?
That's incorrect. She left the stuff there for well over a year. It's his now. No jury in the world, as it were.
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Old 05-24-2010, 11:11 AM
 
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Sell the items worth selling, dump the rest. Enough is enough.
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Old 05-24-2010, 01:06 PM
 
Location: Massatucky
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Well, a collision of events allowed me to DELIVER her stuff : She was on vacation and all I got back was an out-of-office-reply to my email (oh well) after I left to drop it off(oh well!). I had use of a pick-up truck over the weekend so I went to her place to drop it off, under a safe, secure side porch, well out of sight and out of the weather. I did the formerly-self-anointed Princess a favor, saving her a trip, lugging all that stuff up the stairs, etc. Of course, I get a voice mail & email today saying she is "upset" her stuff just 'showed up'. I emailed her back saying I thought it was overdue (she made three prior indications she would come get her things and never found it 'convenient') that she should have taken all her stuff a long time ago and I of course apologized that my email did not get through. I should have reminded her that abandoned property (hers) could be disposed of any way I had wished. Again, I went out of my way to HELP HER. Story of my former life! Oh well.
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Old 05-24-2010, 01:08 PM
 
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Well, a collision of events allowed me to DELIVER her stuff : She was on vacation and all I got back was an out-of-office-reply to my email (oh well) after I left to drop it off(oh well!). I had use of a pick-up truck over the weekend so I went to her place to drop it off, under a safe, secure side porch, well out of sight and out of the weather. I did the formerly-self-anointed Princess a favor, saving her a trip, lugging all that stuff up the stairs, etc. Of course, I get a voice mail & email today saying she is "upset" her stuff just 'showed up'. I emailed her back saying I thought it was overdue (she made three prior indications she would come get her things and never found it 'convenient') that she should have taken all her stuff a long time ago and I of course apologized that my email did not get through. I should have reminded her that abandoned property (hers) could be disposed of any way I had wished. Again, I went out of my way to HELP HER. Story of my former life! Oh well.
She sounds like an entitled, er, rhymes with "what," if I may be blunt.
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