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Old 05-22-2015, 11:31 AM
 
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You seem to want to downplay MOLESTATION by a sibling as simply curiosity. Really?
Is that what I 'SEEM' to be doing? Oh you capitalized MOLESTATION. I should start using that word instead in your opinion I guess.

I am not down playing anything. I am simply stating that it happens quite often. In some cases siblings keep it a secret and go on doing it for years.
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Old 05-22-2015, 11:34 AM
 
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I can't help but wonder how their ratings will spike because of this. It's sad that all these reality show families ***** themselves out like this. That's destructive.
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Old 05-22-2015, 11:34 AM
 
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Is that what I 'SEEM' to be doing? Oh you capitalized MOLESTATION. I should start using that word instead in your opinion I guess.

I am not down playing anything. I am simply stating that it happens quite often. In some cases siblings keep it a secret and go on doing it for years.

Cooperative ones, you mean.Older ones where both were willing.Sometimes....yes, sometimes...this occurs.
4 and 5 year olds? Ones that are sleeping?
How about sticking to the subject matter of this thread. Because some of your comments do seem like you're dismissing it.
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Old 05-22-2015, 11:35 AM
 
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Is that what I 'SEEM' to be doing? Oh you capitalized MOLESTATION. I should start using that word instead in your opinion I guess.

I am not down playing anything. I am simply stating that it happens quite often. In some cases siblings keep it a secret and go on doing it for years.
Yes, when it is forced on another person, including a sibling, it is called MOLESTATION. And yes, you are downplaying it any time you make it sound like that is consensual curiosity.
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Old 05-22-2015, 11:40 AM
 
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Cooperative ones, you mean.Older ones where both were willing.Sometimes....yes, sometimes...this occurs.
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If it's instigated by the younger sibling, maybe. I don't know. But older siblings are often looked upon by younger ones as authority figures, and that changes things.
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Old 05-22-2015, 11:40 AM
 
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You're getting this information from where?
The little girls that kept on smiling? The ones that smiled for the camera all through the abuse and since, but were obviously either ignored or told not to complain?
You think those girls weren't vulnerable and helpless when , even after the parents knew, they didn't stop it?
Un-freakin-believable!
Obviously, I don't know them personally. As I said though, from all accounts, it all seems to have turned out ok. Can you argue otherwise? Can you argue that going a different route would have resulted in a better outcome?
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Old 05-22-2015, 11:42 AM
 
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I'm unsurprised at seeing the reactions from the usual CD fundie mouthpieces. But much as I disagree with him, I thought Eusie had a kind heart. I see now he merely cloaked the rot better than the others.
I felt much the same way, so I usually tried to treat him with respect and basic courtesy, despite his frequent snit fits. Now I see who he really is, and I'll never be able to respect him again. This is just revolting.
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Old 05-22-2015, 11:42 AM
 
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Obviously, I don't know them personally. As I said though, from all accounts, it all seems to have turned out ok. Can you argue otherwise? Can you argue that going a different route would have resulted in a better outcome?
I ask again.....what "all accounts"?
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Old 05-22-2015, 11:48 AM
 
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I am not downplaying anything. It just seems to me that you are all surprised such a thing could occur. The mother has been pregnant over half her life. This is a very sexually active blood line. Maybe Joshie felt left out. It seems all you want to hear is someone else with the same righteous indignation.

How is this not the subject matter of this thread? Does everyone need to have the exact same opinion? He was 14. Fourteen year old boys are exploding with sexual desires. If we were still in the natural world this would be the time we would be mating and raising families.

Do I think he should have been allowed to do it, no. Do I think h=is role model had something to do with his actions? Yes I do.

The name of the show is 'Nineteen Kids and Counting' for christ's sake. It's all about sex.

Who do you thing Cain had relations with if their holy book is correct? Some one adam and eve birthed.
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Old 05-22-2015, 11:49 AM
 
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The only people who seem to be attacking Christians are the Christians who are making excuses for this family. No one said this is a definitive example of Christianity, simply that the Duggars have made their living on shaming others for not living up to their fundamentalist beliefs while sheltering a known sexual abuser WITH his victims!

Josh Duggar himself is quoted many times using his version of Christianity to defend his outright lies about the gay and trans community. While he talked about protecting children, all the while the children needed to be protected from him and were not, repeatedly.
Oh really? You must have missed the OP:

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Duggar Son Allegedly Admitted to Sexually Molesting Minor Girls, Including Sisters | TMZ.com

This is sad, but not surprising. Christian Fundamentalist and reality show star Josh Duggar, who works for the anti-gay hate group Family Research Counci,l molested his own sisters. What a disgusting, hypocritical dirt bag! And his family too... for covering it up.

Seems like all these big Fundy anti-gay "warriors" have some serious sexual and/or dysfunctional skeletons in their closets. These nuts claim it's the gays who are destroying families? HA! This pig was molesting his sisters!

I have no desires of pedophilia or incest, but then I've had a healthy acceptance of who I am and a healthy attitude about sex. Maybe this is what happens in the Duggar cult when you're raised with such extreme oppression. He probably thought it was better to feel up Sis than to masturbate!

Is that not clear?
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