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Old 04-01-2008, 06:36 PM
 
Location: Jacksonville,Florida
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3 things that will suprise you in Heaven:

1. who is there
2. who is not there
3. that YOU are there
I disagree with you on number 3,because I know I will be there it won't be a surprise and as far as number 1 God will be there and as far as number 2 Satan will not be there.
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Old 04-01-2008, 06:40 PM
 
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Perhaps you could start by simply respecting the person, and their right to their religious beliefs. You don't have to agree with a theist, (and there are atheists on our forum who prove that point), but you can still have respectful dialogue with those of differing beliefs, (again, many of our resident atheists do). It is not necessary to slap folks in the face because they believe in a way that is not compatible with your own thought process, as the OP did. It is not respectful, (indeed, it is counterproductive), to accuse others of not thinking, simply because they have come to a different conclusion than yourself about religious/spiritual beliefs, (and yes, this is true for both sides).

Personally, I am well aware that many atheists are highly intelligent people, and I certainly would not accuse them of not thinking, because I believe in a Creator, and they don't. That would be the height of arrogance, on my part. I have actually learned a great deal, here on our forum, listening to the atheists' reasoning. But, for me, although I cannot prove the existence of a Creator, I see enough "evidence", if you will, around me, that convinces me that one exists. By the same token, I actually understand why atheists do not believe, (because I listened, and gave some "thought" to what they had to say), and although I have not come to the same conclusion that they have, I still can respect their reasoning, and I appreciate it when they can be respectful of mine. Agreeing is not necessary.
You may have a right to believe what you want to believe, but you do not have a right to have your beliefs respected. If I concluded that 1 + 1 = 5, my conclusion would be wrong and would not deserve to be respected.

Your smarmy attitude is not going to discredit anything I have said. I've heard it all before, that I am close minded because I always have a rebuttal, and that if I'd just take a moment to understand what they're saying I would totally agree with them all of a sudden. All of it is rubbish, I recognize my own biases.
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Old 04-01-2008, 06:49 PM
 
Location: God's Country
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You may have a right to believe what you want to believe, but you do not have a right to have your beliefs respected. If I concluded that 1 + 1 = 5, my conclusion would be wrong and would not deserve to be respected.

Your smarmy attitude is not going to discredit anything I have said. I've heard it all before, that I am close minded because I always have a rebuttal, and that if I'd just take a moment to understand what they're saying I would totally agree with them all of a sudden. All of it is rubbish, I recognize my own biases.
I think Celtic Lady made a good post. Are you saying that I should not respect your unbelief?
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Old 04-01-2008, 07:02 PM
 
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I think Celtic Lady made a good post. Are you saying that I should not respect your unbelief?
I'm saying that a person needs to present a respectable argument for his or her beliefs if he or she wishes to have them respected. Fallacious arguments are not respectable.

A quick study of logical fallacies and rhetoric would help you understand what does and what does not constitute a respectable argument.
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Old 04-01-2008, 07:14 PM
 
Location: God's Country
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I'm saying that a person needs to present a respectable argument for his or her beliefs if he or she wishes to have them respected. Fallacious arguments are not respectable.

A quick study of logical fallacies and rhetoric would help you understand what does and what does not constitute a respectable argument.
I don't think anything I could say would cause you to respect what I believe.
With your kind of thinking I should not respect what you don't believe.
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Old 04-01-2008, 07:32 PM
 
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I don't think anything I could say would cause you to respect what I believe.
With your kind of thinking I should not respect what you don't believe.


That's right, you shouldn't respect religion because it's a lie. I am also quite liberal, therefore you shouldn't respect republicans either.
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Old 04-01-2008, 07:38 PM
 
Location: God's Country
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That's right, you shouldn't respect religion because it's a lie. I am also quite liberal, therefore you shouldn't respect republicans either.
I'm not talking about religion, I am asking you, do you think I should or should not respect your unbelief?
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Old 04-01-2008, 08:15 PM
 
Location: Blankity-blank!
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The use of the word "unbelief" is too bizarre.
Beliefs that are fabricated without any logic, reason or evidence to support the beliefs do not deserve respect. Not all beliefs are, nor should be respected. Many beliefs about many things circulate in our world, there is no reason to respect them all. Respecting all beliefs is anti-progressive and often harmful to individuals and/or groups. Some beliefs can motivate people to commit atrocities.
Respect is something that must be earned.
People who blather beliefs, without providing any reason, logic, or evidence merely demonstrate their brain-disconnect and lack of reality.
People that can EXPLAIN their beliefs by using reason, logic and evidence deserve a hearing.
Anybody can claim anything. That's easy. Those who make a claim, and then prove it by reason, logic, and evidence can be respected. That would be progress.

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Old 04-01-2008, 08:32 PM
 
Location: Blankity-blank!
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BTW...truths are not determined by the number of followers.
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Old 04-02-2008, 07:44 AM
 
Location: Huntsville, AL
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BTW...truths are not determined by the number of followers.
Nor is truth determined by the loudest voice.
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