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Old 03-13-2014, 07:10 AM
 
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Some will say "Right where I am," and that's understandable. But for those who may not want to live out their days right where they are now: Where do you imagine you would be most content just before leaving the known world...and what are some of the explicit features of that place (for you)? Is it doable for you, or just a fantasy?
Well, "Right where I am" because I already made the move in Jan. 2000 that you brought up.

I got rid of everything - except books, CD´s, a half dozen decorative items and my clothes. It was just barely doable, but I had decided that I did not want to crawl off to some place in the U.S. that I was not truly interested in living in.

My considerations were a calm, non-strident social climate (unlike what the U.S. has become), warm to cool weather year 'round, on the sea, a language I might reasonable expect to gain some competence in, preferably not an American ex-pat colony, ability to do some traveling to other short-haul countries.

It has worked, and I made money in retirement selling a couple of homes, changing currencies, and a very small amount of investing. And now it is off to lunch a little café on a cliff overlooking the sea and bay with a view of the hills as well.
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Old 03-13-2014, 07:18 AM
 
Location: State of Being
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I like wild contrasts in terrain and seasons. I am energized by weather that is BIG, whether a snowstorm or a hurricane . . . and I like big trees, big water, big thunder.

I am happiest when in what I feel to be a "pulsing energetic area" - and like to switch between vistas, so my ideal would be part time in the mountains and part time at the coast. Not sure I really care what country, but as things would have it presently, that would be the USA and NC specifically. But I dream of painting on a precipice in sunny Spain and watching the aurora borealis in icy Finland, lol. How crazy is that?
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Old 03-13-2014, 07:20 AM
 
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Well, "Right where I am" because I already made the move in Jan. 2000 that you brought up.

I got rid of everything - except books, CD´s, a half dozen decorative items and my clothes. It was just barely doable, but I had decided that I did not want to crawl off to some place in the U.S. that I was not truly interested in living in.

My considerations were a calm, non-strident social climate (unlike what the U.S. has become), warm to cool weather year 'round, on the sea, a language I might reasonable expect to gain some competence in, preferably not an American ex-pat colony, ability to do some traveling to other short-haul countries.

It has worked, and I made money in retirement selling a couple of homes, changing currencies, and a very small amount of investing. And now it is off to lunch a little café on a cliff overlooking the sea and bay with a view of the hills as well.
I get it and admire you for making it happen!
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Old 03-13-2014, 07:54 AM
 
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I'd like to live out my remaining years in a charming, funky beach cottage in...oh, let's say...Carmel or Monterey but the town would never be crowded despite the delightful bakeries, shops and restaurants.

Total fantasy for me, unfortunately.
If this is a fantasy due to finances, you may want to check farther up the coast. Lot of affordable beach communities with funky beach cottages, delightful bakeries, shops, and restaurants.
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Old 03-13-2014, 07:58 AM
 
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I want to spend it strolling around the edge of the water with our dogs, with friendly, outrageous neighbors, in a comfortable home with lots of bookshelves, with the duh hubby watching football/Nascar/hockey in his man cave, where the kids are comfortable in visiting in the summer and over the holidays, with an indoor pool and exercise facility.

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Old 03-13-2014, 09:20 AM
 
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If this is a fantasy due to finances, you may want to check farther up the coast. Lot of affordable beach communities with funky beach cottages, delightful bakeries, shops, and restaurants.
Morning! What little communities are you thinking about, please?
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Old 03-13-2014, 09:46 AM
 
Location: Near a river
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I want to spend it strolling around the edge of the water with our dogs, with friendly, outrageous neighbors, in a comfortable home with lots of bookshelves, with the duh hubby watching football/Nascar/hockey in his man cave, where the kids are comfortable in visiting in the summer and over the holidays, with an indoor pool and exercise facility.
and where would that be...the edge of what body of water?
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Old 03-13-2014, 09:55 AM
 
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We've been in Florida (Central) for 40+ years, but, within the past 3-years, moved to North Florida (Panhandle). It's cold here ... and when the grandkids get a little older, we may finish it out back in Central Florida.
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Old 03-13-2014, 10:00 AM
 
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Morning! What little communities are you thinking about, please?
No problem.

9 Towns to Visit During Your Oregon Coast Road Trip

I've visited several of these towns and unless prices have skyrocketed in the last few years, they may be just what you are looking for.

12 great coastal California towns - Get Lost
Dream towns in California - Coastal Living

Many of the California coastal towns seem on the spendy side, but maybe up closer to Oregon.

Dream towns in the Pacific Northwest - Coastal Living

As you get up into Washington, there are no end of sweet towns, but the weather is not quite as pleasant as further south. Still.

10 unsung beach towns on the West Coast - SFGate


Good luck with finding your dream.
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Old 03-13-2014, 10:00 AM
 
Location: Near a river
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We've been in Florida (Central) for 40+ years, but, within the past 3-years, moved to North Florida (Panhandle). It's cold here ... and when the grandkids get a little older, we may finish it out back in Central Florida.
Cold, as in what temps? (there is cold, and there is cold ).
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