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Old 08-10-2021, 02:08 AM
 
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I am in my 30s but am looking to go to places where there are single women in their 40s and 50s. I heard there was a bar in Los Gatos. I just thought I'd ask this forum. To be honest, I've never been much of a bar person because I don't like drinking. But I gotta start getting out, even in Covid. Also, if you have any advice on how you can order drinks if you're not an alcoholic, let me know.
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Old 08-10-2021, 10:51 AM
 
Location: San Francisco, CA
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Where in the Bay Area? I find that the bars/restaurants in Walnut Creek tend to attract a diverse crowd, but with more older people than you would otherwise find in the East Bay. Everybody in Marin is old, but the bar/restaurant scene is not that great up there.
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Old 08-10-2021, 11:27 AM
 
Location: Wine Country, California
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It has been suggested by a couple that there is a huge pack of older women posting here on City Data, and stalking their every move. Several years of investigation have failed to produce any evidence of this, however.
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Old 08-10-2021, 11:35 AM
 
Location: East Bay, San Francisco Bay Area
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Have you Googled "best cougar bars in the Bay Area?"
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Old 08-10-2021, 02:02 PM
 
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Try:
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Old 08-10-2021, 02:49 PM
 
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OP. are you just looking for a quick fling or something more then that?.......if the latter, I would suggest expanding where you look to more then just bars.
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Old 08-10-2021, 03:46 PM
 
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LIKE backdoor.com?
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Old 08-10-2021, 06:24 PM
 
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I am in my 30s but am looking to go to places where there are single women in their 40s and 50s. I heard there was a bar in Los Gatos. I just thought I'd ask this forum. To be honest, I've never been much of a bar person because I don't like drinking. But I gotta start getting out, even in Covid. Also, if you have any advice on how you can order drinks if you're not an alcoholic, let me know.

I guess if you go to a bar and don't drink alcohol, you can always order soda lol.
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Old 08-11-2021, 08:35 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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They all have a few non-alcoholic drinks on the menu.

Why not join some Meetups for people in the general range of 40? Some Meetups are for specific age ranges. Same with some sports activity groups; some hiking clubs have singles hikes that attract a variety of ages, some may occasionally organize age-specific ones.
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Old 08-11-2021, 09:53 AM
 
Location: A bit further north than before
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Los Gatos in general is cougar-heavy. The Rosewood on Sand Hill Road had a ladies night (Thursdays, I think?) that was infamous for rich divorcees.

Honestly, though, dating is all online now. Get a good Bumble profile, set your filters, you'll have a dozen first dates in no time.
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