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Old 12-31-2012, 04:42 AM
 
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In full disclosure, I am a skeptic through and through. I don't believe in ghosts, life after death nor anything paranormal, for that matter.

But it seems many people believe they are visited by their dead relatives or are watched by them. I have a couple friends who say this, but out of respect I don't question them. So on to the questions I had.

When you are having sex, or watching porn, or masturbating, or sitting on the throne, etc, are you ok with yourself being watched or visited? Doesn't that creep you out? Or do you think they just walk into your room, see you fapping, and quietly leave without letting you know they were there? I'm genuinely curious about this...I've never seen it addressed, it just seems to be conveniently left out. It seems every visitation I read or hear about is during innocuous times, ie dinner, or sitting on the couch reading, or in bed, etc.
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Old 12-31-2012, 06:46 AM
 
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In full disclosure, I am a skeptic through and through. I don't believe in ghosts, life after death nor anything paranormal, for that matter.

But it seems many people believe they are visited by their dead relatives or are watched by them. I have a couple friends who say this, but out of respect I don't question them. So on to the questions I had.

When you are having sex, or watching porn, or masturbating, or sitting on the throne, etc, are you ok with yourself being watched or visited? Doesn't that creep you out? Or do you think they just walk into your room, see you fapping, and quietly leave without letting you know they were there? I'm genuinely curious about this...I've never seen it addressed, it just seems to be conveniently left out. It seems every visitation I read or hear about is during innocuous times, ie dinner, or sitting on the couch reading, or in bed, etc.
I'm not a person who believes that my relatives visit me or watch over me at all times. I think that if such visitations are possible, then the person being visited has to be open to it ( Though I have read tales of hauntings where people felt like they were being watched in the shower -creepy for sure).

As far as a visitation at an awkward time by a relative, have you ever walked in on your parents doing it or your brother jerkin the gerkin? You know what you do? You close the door and quietly walk away. If spirits do exist, I'd bet they'd react the same way. I wonder if they'd giggle?
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Old 12-31-2012, 11:31 AM
 
Location: Los Angeles
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Sex is non existent in the spirit world because there is no gender among spirits.
They are incessantly around us 24/7, and the fact that they are watching your every move in inconsequential.
Bob.
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Old 01-03-2013, 09:43 PM
 
Location: Looking over your shoulder
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I believe and feel that “yes” we have relatives who have passed that come and go in our everyday lives. They may stick around for a day or sometimes a week or more, then leave and return next year. I often feel the presence of one or more of my relatives while I’m busy doing things during the day. I believe most people can find this same experience if they simply are open to it and not be afraid. Our family spirits are always available at times of need, I think they’re here to help comfort or guide us at times.
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Old 01-03-2013, 09:46 PM
 
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lmfao at the fapping!
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Old 01-04-2013, 07:18 PM
 
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They are not and they do not. Don't worry about it. Dead - well, I prefer passed on - do not come back. There is no contact between the Realm of Permanence and humans.
Apparitions that may visit someone, simply disgize themselves as one's relatives or close, based on one's thinking.
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Old 01-04-2013, 09:53 PM
 
Location: playing in the colorful Colorado dirt
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They are not and they do not. Don't worry about it. Dead - well, I prefer passed on - do not come back. There is no contact between the Realm of Permanence and humans.
Apparitions that may visit someone, simply disgize themselves as one's relatives or close, based on one's thinking.
Well, if our "passed on" loved ones aren't the ones visiting us, then who are these apparitions?
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Old 01-05-2013, 04:26 AM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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I'm waiting for the relative who plays games with the blender and ding timer on my toaster oven to do something more productive....like the morning coffee!! lols
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Old 01-05-2013, 04:40 AM
 
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They have better "things to do" than watching anyone having sex or taking a shower. The energy world isn't as quite preoccupied w/ such things. Lol. Spirit/energy/different level of consciousness there.
I do think relatives visit, they do, for specific things, not everyday things. Dreams or not in dreams. Depends on how they can "find" you/relate to you and you have to know or be able to acknowledge them when they come--being sensitive to that vibe. Not everyone has that ability.
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Old 01-06-2013, 12:19 AM
 
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After death I believe that there is a life. and people who died. In fact, they just transferred from a life to another life. Body dead, but soul is not dead.
when you sleep, you see a dream and u can see yourself
walking, flying , eating, drinking ...etc do many things. At the same time you can see yourself doing these things while you are in a sleep situation.
People who died like this example. Not Exactly . But this is a good example for making idea near of the real meaning.
That don't mean they live with you now and can see you all the time.

In fact, we couldn't imagine the life they living now because it's not the same with our life.
people who dead they will realize more than us . They will see things as they are. They can see and know things.
So, it's not a strange to visit their relatives BUT NOT all the time.
We believe that if they are a good people who did a good things before they being dead. God will let them visit their relative in specific day and time.
And due to their good doings which they did before die. As a gift to them. God will let them visit their relatives when their relatives are very happy. or have something happy like happy occasion.
And vice versa.
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