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Old 03-03-2021, 06:05 AM
 
Location: Elsewhere
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Short version I see:

1. Trans makes remark about legalizing sex work.

2. cb2008 responds by accusing Trans of wanting human trafficking legalized, including that of children, which is not at all what he said.

3. Trans seems to think it was L8 who said #2.

4. Lots of other words.
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Old 03-03-2021, 06:08 AM
 
Location: minnesota
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This is such a dicey area. The grey area is just so grey.
I don't know about that. Maybe being a woman and having experienced these types of behaviors it's easier to see where the line is for me. If someone tells you where the line is then believe them. That's all you have to do. I'm a white girl so I don't have a racism file. I have to pull out my sexism file to try and relate but I can't ever really get there. I just assume that the person talking about it is speaking from good faith and I accept what they say they are experiencing and do my best to adjust.
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Old 03-03-2021, 06:08 AM
 
Location: S. Wales.
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Originally Posted by L8Gr8Apost8 View Post
Not to misdirect you but that's not me.
I know it isn't.

Ok I see what happened.

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I agree but it wasn't I who expanded it (goalpost wheels rumbling) into child -sex trafficking.
It seems it was here.

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Who did that?
It was cb. I thought you got involved in that but maybe you didn't
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Perhaps it's been confused that I have made it a more general discussion than your anecdote, for the reasons I said) and you had no part in the discussion (your choice) that cb really originated. And yes, I cited cb as originating it and I thought you got involved in that. Sorry if I attributed that cb quote to you rather than saying that was what dragged it in. Which is what I thought I was answering. May we move on now?
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Old 03-03-2021, 06:12 AM
 
Location: minnesota
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I know it isn't.

Ok I see what happened.


It seems it was here.





Perhaps it's been confused that I have made it a more general discussion than your anecdote, for the reasons I said) and you had no part in the discussion (your choice) that cb really originated. And yes, I cited cb as originating it and I thought you got involved in that. Sorry if I attributed that cb quote to you rather than saying that was what dragged it in. Which is what I thought I was answering. May we move on now?
The first cut is the deepest Trans.

Say it...

You were
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Wr
Wr
Wrooo
Wrong

Last edited by L8Gr8Apost8; 03-03-2021 at 06:15 AM.. Reason: It went from you said it to you were motivated by it. Dawkins motivated me to share it.
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Old 03-03-2021, 06:12 AM
 
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Short version I see:

1. Trans makes remark about legalizing sex work.

2. cb2008 responds by accusing Trans of wanting human trafficking legalized, including that of children, which is not at all what he said.

3. Trans seems to think it was L8 who said #2.

4. Lots of other words.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QejBwptSQZc
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Old 03-03-2021, 06:15 AM
 
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Originally Posted by Mightyqueen801 View Post
Short version I see:

1. Trans makes remark about legalizing sex work.

2. cb2008 responds by accusing Trans of wanting human trafficking legalized, including that of children, which is not at all what he said.

3. Trans seems to think it was L8 who said #2.

4. Lots of other words.
Should you not be quoting what each said instead of paraphrasing? Remarking and accusing are loaded words.

The point made in my post is that legalizing sex work does not stop the trafficking of men, women, and children, one of the problems that legalizing prostitution is supposed to stop. The trafficking is the real problem, legal or not, as well as the abuse that follows. It is not about sex, it is about using bodies for trade, which dehumanizes people. Have learnt nothing from 200 years of enslaving human bodies?
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Old 03-03-2021, 06:20 AM
 
Location: S. Wales.
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I don't know how you related me to telling my story about being drunk and someone trying to victimize me ties into sex trafficking. I was trying to point out that Dawkins saying I shouldn't be able to jail a man for doing that is unacceptable. Maybe that's what I'm missing. Make it clear for me.
Ok. From what I get looking back I got off the particular story you told and made it a more general discussion. This linked with my response to the 'sex -trade' point that cb raised but was a general discussion not related to your story specifically, because if one is arguing about particular to general, we may as well discuss the general.
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Old 03-03-2021, 06:24 AM
 
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Ok. From what I get looking back I got off the particular story you told and made it a more general discussion. This linked with my response to the 'sex -trade' point that cb raised but was a general discussion not related to your story specifically, because if one is arguing about particular to general, we may as well discuss the general.
You raised the specter of legalized prostitution while ranting about women’s lib and how women dont want to let men have what they want, all the while denying sexism and racism exists.
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Old 03-03-2021, 06:24 AM
 
Location: S. Wales.
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You raised the specter of legalized prostitution while ranting about women’s lib and how women dont want to let men have what they want, all the while denying sexism and racism exists.
I did indeed raise a 'specter' of something you disapprove of. I don't much care for it either as it's bloody vulgar. So are hamburgers in my opinion, but I don't want to see them banned.

And I have never denied that there is racism and sexism. I'm not even saying they shouldn't be eradicated. I'm saying that denouncing and calling for bans and criminalisation (especially playing the 'sex trafficking' card) may not be the right answer.

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The first cut is the deepest Trans.

Say it...

You were
W
Wr
Wr
Wrooo
Wrong
Very well. I checked back to see how I got it wrong. But I'll say 'I was wrong'. I confused you with cb's quote. Now what?
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Old 03-03-2021, 06:28 AM
 
Location: minnesota
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Very well. I checked back to see how I got it wrong. But I'll say 'I was wrong'. I confused you with cb's quote. Now what?
There is no now what. I related how that whole thing went down would look to other women. You heard "my case" and argued against my perception and that's that.
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