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Old 12-24-2013, 03:26 PM
 
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One church I attended had to deal with our pastor sleeping with our keyboardist.
Not hard to believe. We've learned, on this thread, that churches are full of men who are nothing but pigs who lust after the keyboardist. Who knew there was such lust in today's churches? (Probably not all the atheists who are sitting at home happy to be with the Mrs.) The parishioners.... the pastors.... lusting after anything in a skirt they didn't take vows with!

And those same lust-filled church-goers condemn the gay man who wants to get married and be faithful to his spouse. It's quite amazing.
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Old 12-24-2013, 03:32 PM
 
Location: Ontario, Canada
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Hang in there. I'm praying for you.
Ha! A fine riposte.

Good one.
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Old 12-24-2013, 03:41 PM
 
Location: Sitting beside Walden Pond
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If this was true, then why did it have to happen?
Whether it is true or not, why do you have to care?

The fact is, a lot of us men like to look at attractive women. So what?

My wife and I have been married 42 years and I have never even come close to cheating on her.
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Old 12-24-2013, 03:48 PM
 
Location: Clanton, AL
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Not hard to believe. We've learned, on this thread, that churches are full of men who are nothing but pigs who lust after the keyboardist. Who knew there was such lust in today's churches? (Probably not all the atheists who are sitting at home happy to be with the Mrs.) The parishioners.... the pastors.... lusting after anything in a skirt they didn't take vows with!

And those same lust-filled church-goers condemn the gay man who wants to get married and be faithful to his spouse. It's quite amazing.
I failed to mention that the keyboardist was a married woman as well. So is the pastor. And they are both still at that church.
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Old 12-24-2013, 07:15 PM
 
Location: Florida
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and from an adulterer, murderer, liars ... this is the family from which Jesus came. Ephesians 6:12 Go figure

We shouldn't shoot all our wounded... 'cause there won't be any of us left.
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Old 12-25-2013, 08:21 AM
 
Location: On The Road Full Time RVing
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One church I attended had to deal with our pastor sleeping with our keyboardist.
Brother they were not sleeping ! ! !

They were both commiting Adultry in their heart,
and if either one of them is married that is literal Adultry against their spouse,
and also comming under the heading of fornication.

Which are sins against God Our Holy Father ! ! !

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Old 12-25-2013, 09:02 AM
 
Location: On The Road Full Time RVing
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Here is why I posted this message.
I heard from some female church members, including one of the Deacon’s wives, that several female church members saw the pastor, the deacons, and other male members ‘check out’ the divorced female member. She was a new member at the time.
The so called ‘check out’ the woman as you call it is not a sin to just look at a woman ! ! !

But to lust after a woman is Adultery is committing in the heart.

Mt:5:27: Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery:
28: But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.


But none of these women know what any of these men were thinking or
what was going on with in their hearts ! ! !

Some of these men may be single and are looking
at the woman for a date or future wife which is not sin.

1Tm:5:19: Against an elder receive not an accusation, but before two or three witnesses.
20: Them that sin rebuke before all, that others also may fear.
21: I charge thee before God, and the Lord Jesus Christ, and the elect angels, that thou observe these things without preferring one before another, doing nothing by partiality.



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I do not know if this really happened since I was not watching what the pastor, deacons, and other male members were doing.
That is right and you would not know for sure even if you were watching ! ! !


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But…If this was true, then why did it have to happen?
No one has proved anything ... but all temptation comes from the Devil,
but no sin has to happen ! ! !

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Is church gossip ever true?


The word gossip is a man made word but
spreading thoughts and assumptions without any real proof and back biting is a sin ! ! !


Be careful of what you fall into ! ! !

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Old 12-25-2013, 09:12 AM
 
Location: On The Road Full Time RVing
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Not hard to believe. We've learned, on this thread, that churches are full of men who are nothing but pigs who lust after the keyboardist. Who knew there was such lust in today's churches? (Probably not all the atheists who are sitting at home happy to be with the Mrs.) The parishioners.... the pastors.... lusting after anything in a skirt they didn't take vows with!
How can you say these thing when you nor anyone else knows
what goes on in all mens heartsand even womens heart for that matter.

There are some men and women who are like this ... but NOT ALL ! ! !

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Old 12-25-2013, 09:22 AM
 
Location: On The Road Full Time RVing
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I failed to mention that the keyboardist was a married woman as well. So is the pastor. And they are both still at that church.
And you have proof that they are commiting Adultery
and can establish this with two or three witnesses.

And are you handling this like the God sas to in the bible ? ? ?

1Tm:5:19: Against an elder receive not an accusation, but before two or three witnesses.
20: Them that sin rebuke before all, that others also may fear.
21: I charge thee before God, and the Lord Jesus Christ, and the elect angels, that thou observe these things without preferring one before another, doing nothing by partiality.

Remember with two or three true witnesses and true real proof
or else it just back biting and sin.

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Old 12-25-2013, 03:23 PM
 
Location: Clanton, AL
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And you have proof that they are commiting Adultery
and can establish this with two or three witnesses.

And are you handling this like the God sas to in the bible ? ? ?

1Tm:5:19: Against an elder receive not an accusation, but before two or three witnesses.
20: Them that sin rebuke before all, that others also may fear.
21: I charge thee before God, and the Lord Jesus Christ, and the elect angels, that thou observe these things without preferring one before another, doing nothing by partiality.

Remember with two or three true witnesses and true real proof
or else it just back biting and sin.

.
This was many years ago in a church I attended. They both admitted it to the church. So they would be 2 witness's. Do you think we should have more than the one's who did it and admitted it?
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