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Old 03-31-2016, 04:26 PM
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I wish I could agree with you, but in reality, people do expect certain behavior from men. For example, I am also very immature(man child) and people around me tell me to "grow the F*ck up" all the time.
Can you give an example of the type of behavior that people around you find very shy/immature that are alluding to?
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Old 03-31-2016, 04:31 PM
 
Location: Somewhere in Southern Italy
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1. Where did I say "white men"?

2. If you got offended only because I asked if North Europeans are shy, then the Internet is not for you, my friend.

3. I clearly said "no offense is intended" and that "ofc not every one is like that".

4. Lighten up. Life is too short to get offended by what random strangers say/ask on the internet.
Well, my mistake. I read in a rush and i ****ed up

Sorry, that's because it was a sign of self perceived inferiority which is something i really find more disturbing than offensive. My post's gonna be deleted. Based my assumptions off of a mistake
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Old 03-31-2016, 04:35 PM
 
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Can you give an example of the type of behavior that people around you find very shy/immature?
Sure.

Immature:
1. Well, it's something I didn't realise myself at first, but because people around me tell me that I am immature, I have come to realise it must be true.

2. I still play with toys.

3. I live in my own imaginary world.

4. I can relate with children more than men my age can. I'd still rather hang out with men my age though.

Shy:

1. I feel more comfortable when I am all alone.

2. I have never flirted with a woman because I am too coward to do that.

3. I don't initiate conversations.

4. People say they are able to tell I am feeling shy/nervous just by looking at my eyes.
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Old 03-31-2016, 04:36 PM
 
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Well, my mistake. I read in a rush and i ****ed up

Sorry, that's because it was a sign of self perceived inferiority which is something i really find more disturbing than offensive. My post's gonna be deleted. Based my assumptions off of a mistake
LOL It's alright! Cheers
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Old 03-31-2016, 04:47 PM
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Sure.

Immature:
1. Well, it's something I didn't realise myself at first, but because people around me tell me that I am immature, I have come to realise it must be true.

2. I still play with toys.

3. I live in my own imaginary world.

4. I can relate with children more than men my age can. I'd still rather hang out with men my age though.

Shy:

1. I feel more comfortable when I am all alone.

2. I have never flirted with a woman because I am too coward to do that.

3. I don't initiate conversations.

4. People say they are able to tell I am feeling shy/nervous just by looking at my eyes.
Which kind of toys?

What age do you most relate to?
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Old 03-31-2016, 04:59 PM
 
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Which kind of toys?

What age do you most relate to?
Transformers and wrestlers. Mostly pick random objects and just immagine they are transformers or wrestlers.

Somewhere between 11 to 17 years old.

Fore example I fantisize having a girlfriend like a 14 year old does, but wouldn't actually discuss it with a 14 year old guys because they are not well informed on how the human brain works as for instance.

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Old 03-31-2016, 05:00 PM
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Transformers and wrestlers. Mostly pick random objects and just immagine they are transformers or wrestlers.

Somewhere between 11 to 17 years old.
How old are you?
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Old 03-31-2016, 05:03 PM
 
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how old are you?
30
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Old 03-31-2016, 05:14 PM
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It would not be appropriate for me to ask you additional questions on CD. In the USA based on our cultural norms some of your behaviors concern me a 14 year old is below the age of consent and you would be at risk for being a sexual offender. I don't know about Pakistani cultural norms be I suggest you speak to a professional. I see some red flags based on your responses and I'll leave it at that.
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Old 03-31-2016, 05:19 PM
 
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It would not be appropriate for me to ask you additional questions on CD. In the USA based on our cultural norms some of your behaviors concern me a 14 year old is below the age of consent and you would be at risk for being a sexual offender. I don't know about Pakistani cultural norms be I suggest you speak to a professional. I see some red flags based on your responses and I'll leave it at that.
Wait, I meant I fantasize having a girlfriend like a 14 year old does, not a 14 year old girl. I am into women my age. I would NEVER date a 14 year old. Are you trolling or serious?
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