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Old 03-16-2014, 05:11 PM
 
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Don't bother to try. If she didn't want them to be looked at, she wouldn't be hanging them out in public. It's polite to comment on what nice (firm, creamy, monumental) breasts she has.
It's a little hard to not hang them out in public. There's no hiding them. I can cover them completely, and they're still there, front and center.

And no, unless you are my significant other, it is NOT polite to comment on my breasts.
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Old 03-16-2014, 05:16 PM
 
Location: Chicagoland
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Don't bother to try. If she didn't want them to be looked at, she wouldn't be hanging them out in public. It's polite to comment on what nice (firm, creamy, monumental) breasts she has.
Yes, and if male bikers did not want it looked at, why would they be displaying it so prominently in tight spandex/lycra bikers shorts in public? It's polite to comment on what nice (large, proportional, well-positioned) packages they have.
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Old 03-16-2014, 05:39 PM
 
Location: Daytona Beach,Florida
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Well if a guy focuses on boobs what does that say about him. My wife has breasts and nice ones but that is not what a real man focus on. We focus on the personality,the type of person she is,and whether she is someone we could spend the rest of our lives with. 14 years of marriage and I am a very happy man.
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Old 03-16-2014, 05:46 PM
 
Location: Chicagoland
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Well if a guy focuses on boobs what does that say about him. My wife has breasts and nice ones but that is not what a real man focus on. We focus on the personality,the type of person she is,and whether she is someone we could spend the rest of our lives with. 14 years of marriage and I am a very happy man.
Why can't a real man focus on boobs as well as all your other things? They are just not as high a priority. What if your list looks like this....

1. personality

2. type of person she is

3. someone you can spend your life with

4. boobs
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Old 03-16-2014, 06:02 PM
 
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Women don't say that. Most don't even think that. It's men's insecurity that causes them to think women prefer big ones.
Yes, it is true that women don't normally talk like that. Movies that appeal to men have us talking like that. Notice how many women's magazines there are that show nude males. Playgirl did not work, and I am not sure how many women actually bought it.
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Old 03-16-2014, 07:06 PM
 
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I don't quite understand this thread. Maybe, pictures would help me get a good handle on the topic... ...
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Old 03-16-2014, 08:10 PM
 
Location: Cleveland and Columbus OH
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If men aren't allowed to prefer big boobs, then I say it's time for women to stop preferring tall men. Isn't that equally as shallow?

Maybe it's because I live in Boston and it's cold and people dress conservatively, but I don't know that I've ever just checked out some girl's rack just standing in line at Starbucks or something. The insinuation that that's what we all do is a bit insulting. I guess boobs just aren't really that new or interesting for me.
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Old 03-16-2014, 08:15 PM
 
Location: Tucson for awhile longer
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I don't vilify men with that fixation. I just laugh at them. Do you know how many men get taken advantage of because they can't get their eyes off a woman's chest? Do you know how many companies make money selling you images of boobage?
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Old 03-16-2014, 08:28 PM
 
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If men aren't allowed to prefer big boobs, then I say it's time for women to stop preferring tall men. Isn't that equally as shallow?
Apples and oranges. The objection is not that men prefer big boobs. No one is saying that there's a problem with preferring big boob over small. The problem is objectifying women based solely on their boobs. Reducing a woman to no more worth than what is contained in her bra.
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Old 03-16-2014, 08:43 PM
 
Location: Birmingham
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Why is it apples and oranges? Why is it okay for a woman to say she only dates guys six feet tall or up and that it is different then a guy saying he only likes women with natural G cups or larger?

If a man says he only likes extremely large chests it is considered a fetish. A woman only liking freakishly large body builder types, for instance, is just being choosy and exercising her womanly prerogative.
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