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Old 07-27-2015, 07:38 PM
 
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Why is it that women have 2 choices when it comes to pregnancy and men only get 1?

They both have a choice to have sex, but because it's "her body", she has a choice to keep the baby or not. Shouldn't the male have the choice to pay child support or not? That would sure eliminate a lot of excessive population in this country, if no monetary award is given to women.
What about accountability? shouldn't vouchers be provided instead of checks? I want some accounting of where my money is going, and not to "nails and hair did".
I love how the feminist put men in jail for not paying, yeah that makes a lot of sense! now he gets fired because of being in jail, or doesn't stand a chance of getting a job because there is a gap on the resume from "doing time" because he couldn't afford the rapeage that the male hating courts handed down. How are you ever suppose to get ahead to pay the support under these conditions?

No wonder so many men whack their (ex) wife and kids!

Last edited by Nomadic_Cajun; 07-27-2015 at 08:01 PM..

 
Old 07-27-2015, 07:57 PM
 
Location: I'm around here someplace :)
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Originally Posted by Nomadic_Cajun View Post
Why is it that women have 2 choices when it comes to pregnancy and men only get 1?

They both have a choice to have sex, but because it's "her body", she has a choice to keep the baby or not. Shouldn't the male have the choice to pay child support or not? That would sure eliminate a lot of excessive population in this country, if no monetary award is given to women.
What about accountability? shouldn't vouchers be provided instead of checks? I want some accounting of where my money is going, and not to "nails and hair did".
I love how the feminist put men in jail for not paying, yeah that makes a lot of sense! now he gets fired because of being in jail, or doesn't stand a chance of getting a job because there is a gap on the resume from "doing time" because he couldn't afford the rapeage that the male hating courts handed down.

No wonder so many men whack their (ex) wife and kids!
Wellll, I'm probably going to get flak from both genders on this, but I believe the current "system" (as you describe) is bad for everybody, and a heck of a lot of problems could be eliminated by returning things to the way they were 'back in the day.' Meaning: a guy should have two options- marry the girlfriend, or stay out of the picture with no obligations and no rights.
 
Old 07-27-2015, 07:59 PM
 
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Why is it that women have 2 choices when it comes to pregnancy and men only get 1?

They both have a choice to have sex, but because it's "her body", she has a choice to keep the baby or not. Shouldn't the male have the choice to pay child support or not? That would sure eliminate a lot of excessive population in this country, if no monetary award is given to women.
What about accountability? shouldn't vouchers be provided instead of checks? I want some accounting of where my money is going, and not to "nails and hair did".
I love how the feminist put men in jail for not paying, yeah that makes a lot of sense! now he gets fired because of being in jail, or doesn't stand a chance of getting a job because there is a gap on the resume from "doing time" because he couldn't afford the rapeage that the male hating courts handed down.
Nope. Why do you think it's okay for my tax dollars to support the child that YOU don't want?
 
Old 07-27-2015, 08:05 PM
 
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Nope. Why do you think it's okay for my tax dollars to support the child that YOU don't want?
But you are okay paying for welfare recipients who are clearly abusing the system? So again, the men has the burden? Why is this if the women choose to keep it? It should be her burden to pay for it. True equality is giving the same amount of choices to each gender, not fleecing men because a baby is in her oven.
 
Old 07-27-2015, 08:05 PM
 
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There is no such thing as "free sex." a wise man once quipped.
 
Old 07-27-2015, 08:08 PM
 
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Meaning: a guy should have two options- marry the girlfriend, or stay out of the picture with no obligations and no rights.
There are already too many guys who take option 2. Somebody needs to pay to put food in that kids mouth.
 
Old 07-27-2015, 08:10 PM
 
Location: DFW
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But you are okay paying for welfare recipients who are clearly abusing the system? So again, the men has the burden? Why is this if the women choose to keep it? It should be her burden to pay for it. True equality is giving the same amount of choices to each gender, not fleecing men because a baby is in her oven.
So Mr Cajun, how many illegitimate kids are YOU having to pay for?

You breed em, you pay for em.
 
Old 07-27-2015, 08:12 PM
 
Location: Planet Earth
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Why is it that women have 2 choices when it comes to pregnancy and men only get 1?

They both have a choice to have sex, but because it's "her body", she has a choice to keep the baby or not. Shouldn't the male have the choice to pay child support or not? That would sure eliminate a lot of excessive population in this country, if no monetary award is given to women.
What about accountability? shouldn't vouchers be provided instead of checks? I want some accounting of where my money is going, and not to "nails and hair did".
I love how the feminist put men in jail for not paying, yeah that makes a lot of sense! now he gets fired because of being in jail, or doesn't stand a chance of getting a job because there is a gap on the resume from "doing time" because he couldn't afford the rapeage that the male hating courts handed down. How are you ever suppose to get ahead to pay the support under these conditions?

No wonder so many men whack their (ex) wife and kids!
If he kept his trousers zipped he wouldn't be in this mess...he should have said "no" and not been so "easy". That's the consequences of his loose behavior.
 
Old 07-27-2015, 08:13 PM
 
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No wonder so many men whack their (ex) wife and kids!
 
Old 07-27-2015, 08:13 PM
 
Location: Saint Louis (Clayton)
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No wonder so many men whack their (ex) wife and kids!
I love that Rihanna song "B**ch Better Have My Money"
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