Hi GypsyMagik!
I left a reply for you in the South Carolina forum, but went ahead and copied it to this thread as well...
Being a longtime resident of Greenville, and having a pretty good idea of what this area is generally like emotionally, I would guess you should be very satisfied with living here among a very diverse and growing population. I cannot speak for everyone as I do not know the hearts and minds of anyone but myself, but from my perspective, Greenville is as perfect a place as any in regard to the acceptance of newcomers, whether white, black, tan, red, yellow, and etc. Skin color is not what matters to the people I know here, nor is a family with multiple skin colors something to be surprised by.
Have you visited Greenville yet? If so, what do you like most about the area, and what type of place are you interested in settling down permanently in? I would be glad to help answer more specific questions you may have about life in the beautiful and vibrant city of Greenville or areas in the surrounding Upstate region as best I can. I hope you will soon find the life you are longing for.