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Oh my dear Malia, I am so sorry to hear that. I'm afraid I thought that too, like cyn. I was there 40+ years ago too. Not escorts but a gf on the side. I so hope things will turn out okay for you. (((Hugs)))
I also had a similar situation with my first hubby--my kids dad. He just liked women and I guess I was never going to be enough--I don't share so that was that but he was my first love and since we have children together he will always have a place in my heart. He lives with my son now and every time I see him I tell him he lost a good thing! He only had one girlfriend and that lasted a month or so and her name was the same as mine. We've remained good friends but that is all. I sure hope your hubby gets his act together Malia--his timing is so bad! There is no good timing for that kind of thing. You have us sweetie!
I am beat---literally--I mowed the entire yard--almost 3 acres. Since ebay was at a stand still I decided to get the yard done before next weeks heat wave. Not sure what I'll do in the summer months. Heat and I don't do well together. Maybe 2 days early in the morning?
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My first hubby couldn't keep it in his pants, cyn.
3 acres? Wow, that is some mowing! I forget, do you use a riding mower? I hope so! I need to get my rear out there and do mine. Only 1/2 an acre but getting tougher to do with a regular mower. Heat and MS don't mix well, I hear ya!
I know about the heat and MS----ALS is the same way. They just don't mix with heat. I am sore today but today is a really big deal at my church celebrating 61 years! After the service there will be guest speakers and dinner! We all are taking a little something to add to the table. I am taking seedless red grapes in a nice big bowl. Little kids love to munch on those more then eating a sit down meal usually! Wish I was more excited---I think I am just tired and sore. Maybe after I get there I will feel better! Have a blessed day everyone!
The grapes went over well. Boy are my allergies going crazy the last few days! Guess the mowing didn't help much! Church was nice and I did enjoy the company. Today is suppose to be warmer--80 or so....guess I will attempt washing the living room rug. I meet with my therapist today too so maybe I can stay busy! Have a good day everyone!
Cyn, tamiznluv, Sudcaro. Thanks you so much for keeping me in your thoughts. I actually opened a thread in relationships forum. Some members there are really supportive. I found out about this through his phone. The background is that, he seems to be going out really early, like 6 PM and would not get home until 2:30 or 3 AM. He has always been out late and that never bothered me. That day something was off. I could feel it; my friend, who had know our issues told me to check his phone. When I had a chance, I did and saw a message from a sex worker. basically it was her price quote and the services she offers. He replied saying he was looking for last night and that maybe touch base another time. I checked to see the call history and there were at least 10 numbers and they all belonged to escort services. From the timings I could make out that he didnt really see any of them.
So, I dont for sure know if he contacted them for himself or for a friend (in the past he did it for a friend...that friend told me). But it cannot just be a nasty coincidence. My heart wants to stay positive and think this never happened but my mind says he is just bluffing and taking me for granted.
Timing couldnt have been worse. I love him so very much.
Be positive but not blind. I hope you are right. We are here for you girl!
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You have us sweetie!