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Originally Posted by cynmkolohe
Here's a good rule of thumb for visits from family...10 days is just about the right time frame if your family is staying with you! Just enough time to enjoy each other before the fact that you have a real life with responsibilities and demands begins to interfere with the fun you are having. After 10 days, time to have the family visit another island for a few days before heading home.
Might just be me and my crazy family, but after hosting a few extended stays, I've tried to gently institute that rule...a week or so with me, then I can suggest some great B&Bs or outer-island trips you might want to take--and if I can join you, I will!
Hope to hear wonderful things about your visit to Kauai and your adventure if you decide to pursue the move!!
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I think you stated this better then I have. I remember reading this back when and I thought that really is so very, very, true.
After hosting a few extended stays from people coming from France I realized a month is just way too long.
They come and expect a journey to a vacation spot each and every day and ever hour.
As much as we did try with NYC, Philly, the shore for a week, Washington DC........The days there was down time for me and my young children were difficult. They were on vacation, and they wanted to keep going.
Unfortunately as years went by and I expressed this two week time frame instead of a month....They were not very pleased by that idea and just didn't come at all. LOL
I don't know why travelers don't understand. We had taken our vacation we were now hosting them. They could travel wherever they wanted....
Perhaps here and there by bus. We would even take them to a location if they wanted to spend some time at one.
I had to get back to my home chores, bill paying, family obligations........
We tried to be so welcoming, but the long stays seem to backfire.
Thirty days is just to long of time for entertaining.......
So, yes......I'd still try for a shorter stay of family...But, watch how you word it and hopefully they won't be offended,and will understand.