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Originally Posted by nobodysbusiness
Totally agree with you, OP. You can spend your whole life "in service" to people who basically just use you, with no regard for your feelings or your well-being.
It is NOT worth it.
I did not know there were so many users out there - "mentally ill" or not - if you want friendship, it must be reciprocal.
Every human being is ultimately responsible for themselves.
Some people hide behind all kinds of "disabilities" as a way to gain sympathy or have people take care of them.
Not cool.
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Oh, yes, there are lots of users out there. I have the same problem as the OP. As if this summer didn't suck bad enough, a female friend slit her wrists and posted it on Facebook. I couldn't respond as I have enough bricks on my back as it is. It is partially my fault because I need to stop being so available to people.
I hate when people hide behind their illnesses. I am trying so damn hard to be normal because I do not want to burden anyone. A mood disorder doesn't mean you have the right to treat other people like crap. There are so many of us that you would never know unless we told you. People that pull this helpless act make me so mad because then people perceive ALL of us as being somehow "less than" and I don't want to be pitied; I want to be respected.
If anyone wants to help others, give them a resource and then STOP. You led the horse to water. If they do not want to do a Google search or call a toll-free number or read a book, that's on them. The OP is right; this neediness will drive you insane.