Dating Scene in Miami (Bell: credit, house, find a job)

[deboinair]

Originally Posted by Pear Martini

You are not the first person to say this.

I know I'm not. I didn't get that phrase on my own, an actual Cuban told me that. lol Don't get me wrong though, All Cubans are definitely not ignorant. Plenty of cool ones. Just there are a few where you are like really?

Dating scene is crazy. Sad because this is a place where if you do find a mate, there is so much to do. I just figure though you have more fun in your 20's at least in my generation. Trying not to give up, but looks like AZ is on the hit list to move to. Very upcoming city. Beautiful women without the BS. Four years ago I said Miami women were right above Phoenix women as far as looks. Right now Phoenix has it. Go to aznightlife.com and check out the pictures.

[Pear Martini]

Originally Posted by deboinair

I know I'm not. I didn't get that phrase on my own, an actual Cuban told me that. lol Don't get me wrong though, All Cubans are definitely not ignorant. Plenty of cool ones. Just there are a few where you are like really?

Dating scene is crazy. Sad because this is a place where if you do find a mate, there is so much to do. I just figure though you have more fun in your 20's at least in my generation. Trying not to give up, but looks like AZ is on the hit list to move to. Very upcoming city. Beautiful women without the BS. Four years ago I said Miami women were right above Phoenix women as far as looks. Right now Phoenix has it. Go to aznightlife.com and check out the pictures.

I'm a straight woman so I can't really be a judge of that. I think Miami has some of the most gorgeous women I have ever seen. The plastic surgery culture is so disappointing. I just lose all respect for someone once I find out they had work done (besides anti-aging stuff that older women get like botox). Male or female, it just is too vain to get calve implants, breast implants, or butt implants.

[deboinair]

Originally Posted by Pear Martini

I'm a straight woman so I can't really be a judge of that. I think Miami has some of the most gorgeous women I have ever seen. The plastic surgery culture is so disappointing. I just lose all respect for someone once I find out they had work done (besides anti-aging stuff that older women get like botox). Male or female, it just is too vain to get calve implants, breast implants, or butt implants.

I agree with the fake butts and stuff. That's why I put AZ on top now. Miami was the land of the most beautiful women, but large quantities of women down here have some kind of work done. I like natural looking women. Plastic surgery went from only the rich to anybody that can get a credit card, so that is why it's so prevalent down here.

Even with all the negatives about the women, I still love Miami. It's really a great city. So much to do. It's smaller than NY and LA both places I lived in, but can compete with both cities because of the variety of things to do . Miami has been more popular than ever lately that is why there is such a change in attitude with people. In LA, you can see the Hollywood attitude, but it's so big that the majority is not like that. Miami is very small compared to LA. So there are no really outskirts to get away of the pretentious attitudes as much.

[Hold on to the Nights]

Originally Posted by Pear Martini

I'm a straight woman so I can't really be a judge of that. I think Miami has some of the most gorgeous women I have ever seen. The plastic surgery culture is so disappointing. I just lose all respect for someone once I find out they had work done (besides anti-aging stuff that older women get like botox). Male or female, it just is too vain to get calve implants, breast implants, or butt implants.

Nose jobs usually look very nice, so do liposuctions. Some people do go overboard but a lot of plastic surgery improves your appearance. I don't think there is anything wrong with that except for the risks.

I love nice nose jobs. Noses get big and crooked with age.

[unclealbertt]

Originally Posted by deboinair

Thats the problem. There are too many Cubans. Their population increased dramatically over the last 10 years. I'm not fond of the Cuban women. They mostly all look the same. Pale with big butts. Funny thing though, 80% of their country is black and they don't like dark. Hate that the black and mixed ones don't come to FL, only the white ones for the most part.


They outnumber the sexy South Americans. I love the Colombianas, but it appears they are moving out of Miami by the droves. They are more in Broward and spread out. I used to have a field day in Kendall.

Not according to the 2010 Census.

[StanfordBoy]

Originally Posted by deboinair

I'm black and actually got with a few Cuban chics and I have nothing that you have lol. I'm an Accountant. When you are young, they would stray at least in my case. I never chased them though, I always thought Cubans were the rednecks of the Hispanic community. Outside of Miami and New Jersey, a lot of people don't know about Cubans.

I always loved the Colombianas because they were always straight up. Very rare to get the number and they would be on that BS. Not too many Puerto Ricans down here. If you like them then you would have a field day in Orlando.

I will admit, I went on a date with one Cuban girl. Because of my being biracial, I'm kind of on the light side and she thought I was Caucasian. We went on a date to Prime 112 and when I asked where she was from. She said she was Cuban. When she asked me, I told her my father was Nigerian and my mother was Greek. When I said that, her whole facial expression and mood changed from nice and sweet to distant and cold. When I took her home, she said that she went on the date with me because she thought I was Caucasian. She then said I could not provide the lifestyle she wanted. Mind you, I drove her in a Mercedes G550, I paid $378 for a meal for two, including the fact that she wanted the most expensive bottle of wine, and I told her I was an attorney.

[Pear Martini]

Originally Posted by StanfordBoy

I will admit, I went on a date with one Cuban girl. Because of my being biracial, I'm kind of on the light side and she thought I was Caucasian. We went on a date to Prime 112 and when I asked where she was from. She said she was Cuban. When she asked me, I told her my father was Nigerian and my mother was Greek. When I said that, her whole facial expression and mood changed from nice and sweet to distant and cold. When I took her home, she said that she went on the date with me because she thought I was Caucasian. She then said I could not provide the lifestyle she wanted. Mind you, I drove her in a Mercedes G550, I paid $378 for a meal for two, including the fact that she wanted the most expensive bottle of wine, and I told her I was an attorney.

Whoa. I had no idea people could be that racist/cruel in Miami. That is so ridiculous to me.

Another thing. What do you mean by "I told her I was an attorney". Were you just BSing?

I highlighted the mercedes part because I noticed so many guys in Miami lead with their money. After just meeting someone say at the dog park, beach, or whatever they will say "Oh yeah I drive this and this and I do this and this for a living" oh yeah. Its weird. So you think I will want to be your friend or grab lunch with you because you can afford to finance a benz? Thats almost insulting to me. I'm not a gold digger and don't give a **** about your car.

[StanfordBoy]

Originally Posted by Pear Martini

Whoa. I had no idea people could be that racist/cruel in Miami. That is so ridiculous to me.

Another thing. What do you mean by "I told her I was an attorney". Were you just BSing?

I highlighted the mercedes part because I noticed so many guys in Miami lead with their money. After just meeting someone say at the dog park, beach, or whatever they will say "Oh yeah I drive this and this and I do this and this for a living" oh yeah. Its weird. So you think I will want to be your friend or grab lunch with you because you can afford to finance a benz? Thats almost insulting to me. I'm not a gold digger and don't give a **** about your car.

What? I'm just saying that the signs were there that I could provide the so-called "life" that she wanted.

[deboinair]

Originally Posted by StanfordBoy

I will admit, I went on a date with one Cuban girl. Because of my being biracial, I'm kind of on the light side and she thought I was Caucasian. We went on a date to Prime 112 and when I asked where she was from. She said she was Cuban. When she asked me, I told her my father was Nigerian and my mother was Greek. When I said that, her whole facial expression and mood changed from nice and sweet to distant and cold. When I took her home, she said that she went on the date with me because she thought I was Caucasian. She then said I could not provide the lifestyle she wanted. Mind you, I drove her in a Mercedes G550, I paid $378 for a meal for two, including the fact that she wanted the most expensive bottle of wine, and I told her I was an attorney.

What your saying is definitely the truth, but my question is why didn't you get this straightened out before the date? I mean I guess because I'm not ballin, I like to get everything out there before I spend cash. lol I always like to know their background. Miami used to be mixed up more. Not so much. Still lots of things to do here. though. I'm trying to move back out West this year, wish I didn't buy my condo though.

Attorney and you couldn't provide her kind of lifestyle? Ummm what did she do for a living? I mean seriously, most of these Cuban women don't have a pot to **** in or a window to throw it out.

[deboinair]

Originally Posted by Pear Martini

Whoa. I had no idea people could be that racist/cruel in Miami. That is so ridiculous to me.

Another thing. What do you mean by "I told her I was an attorney". Were you just BSing?

I highlighted the mercedes part because I noticed so many guys in Miami lead with their money. After just meeting someone say at the dog park, beach, or whatever they will say "Oh yeah I drive this and this and I do this and this for a living" oh yeah. Its weird. So you think I will want to be your friend or grab lunch with you because you can afford to finance a benz? Thats almost insulting to me. I'm not a gold digger and don't give a **** about your car.

I have to re-interate that all Cubans are not ignorant or racist. You do have a few, but it's nothing like going to Alabama or something. lol

Because a lot of the women down here like that. It's has increased over the years because of the media attention. It was just a small section years ago, now it's viral. It makes me laugh especially to the women that don't have much and expect a guy to give them everything.