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Old 04-26-2013, 03:38 PM
 
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I don't know if that's funny or just simply bizarre!
It is bizarre. He's a grown ass man playing 10 year old games.
However I do find it funny now since obviously I am no longer with him.
Funny someone else has to deal with him and not me
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Old 04-26-2013, 03:41 PM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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It is bizarre. He's a grown ass man playing 10 year old games.
However I do find it funny now since obviously I am no longer with him.
Funny someone else has to deal with him and not me

Huh?

Oh..you're also the OP...
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Old 04-26-2013, 03:48 PM
 
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No but you quoted me with that funny or bizarre statement so I replied to that.
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Old 04-26-2013, 03:52 PM
 
Location: Bronx
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I went to a police precinct to register my handheld electronics. While there I told the officer the problems I was having at my apartment building. He offered to come to my house to look at my security efforts. I was hesitant and asked if he could come in plain clothes, he told me no. So I told him I'll think about it.

After a few months I decided to call him to ask if I could take him up on the offer. He came to my house and when I saw him I told him he looked different. The first time I met him he was very metrosexual but I didn't feel any strong attraction to him. Now seeing him again I noticed a few things, like his hair grew out and he had a different pair of glasses on. He asked me what did I mean different? I just said idk, different, but what was going through my mind was sexy. During the time he was here I didn't flirt with him, I didn't think I was his type, and he didn't show any indication he was the least bit interested in me.

Now fast forward a few days and I get a call from a fellow officer saying he was the original officer's supervisor. He said he was calling to ask what I thought of the officer, that he was taking a survey. I didn't know this was customary with the NYPD. I didn't really think the police would take the time to survey one particular citizen, especially with my situation that hasn't been concluded. Since then I've realized I was disappointed that I didn't hear from the original officer and also realized I'm very attracted to him.

What do you think? Do you think he was using his fellow officer or supervisor to feel me out?
Didn't know out of town women like NYC guys! Seems odd.
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Old 04-26-2013, 03:57 PM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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No but you quoted me with that funny or bizarre statement so I replied to that.

Ohhh...sorry about that! I saw "nyc" and didn't realize.
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Old 04-27-2013, 11:36 AM
 
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I've never received a "survey" call when I had to deal with NYPD, whether it was business related or for something personal. Ever.

What exactly did they ask you and what exactly did you tell them?? If the reason for the call was to see if you were interested in him then count your blessings that he didn't contact you again. Sounds juvenile. Heck, he just could have slipped you one of these:

I thought the same, but then I thought maybe it's because of his job, or he may not be experienced with a woman like me, or possibly he's a man that doesn't deal with rejection well.

I think it's cute though. Just hope he's not narcissistic.
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Old 04-27-2013, 11:38 AM
 
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I don't know if that's funny or just simply bizarre!

so, what did they ask you when they called about the "survey"?
I thought it was strange too.

I mean what did he expect me to say, "Oh he was hot."
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Old 04-27-2013, 11:39 AM
 
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Didn't know out of town women like NYC guys! Seems odd.



If we can tolerate the right NYC accent.
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Old 04-27-2013, 12:48 PM
 
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Why don't you call him again if you really like him that much. This time just say you desired him to do
a stop and frisk on you ever since the first time you met him.

If he refused and you are white, you can taunt him and say" Am I not dark enough for you?", then hang
up and forget about him. If you are a minority, then tell him he is doing a terrible job of reaching out to
the community he served.
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Old 04-28-2013, 11:59 AM
 
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Why don't you call him again if you really like him that much. This time just say you desired him to do
a stop and frisk on you ever since the first time you met him.

If he refused and you are white, you can taunt him and say" Am I not dark enough for you?", then hang
up and forget about him. If you are a minority, then tell him he is doing a terrible job of reaching out to
the community he served.
You're funny. lol


I'll definitely send out some clear signals.

I could still be off the mark and maybe he wanted the "supervisor" to see if I was crazy. Idk?

Well I'll find out shortly.
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