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The SO bought a house in combination with his brother & sister. As though that was already not a bad idea, the brother passed on. Now he co owns it with the sister & deceased brother's ;wifeyAnyway doe, for reasons I do not understand hubby & sister want to keep house for themselves as family property. Now what pisses me off is that my husband has to do all the work with renting out this house. Keep in mind this is a house I did not approve be bought in the first place and now my SO is too ``busy with work`` and since I lost my job`` I should try to get the house rented out``Keep in mind this a house I did not want him to buy anyways. I feel like other sibling is slacking off and now I´m being burdened. And important side note, the sibling calls me a ``gold digger`` so why should I relieve my husband of what is supposed to be his sibling job especially if they have colorful offensive ungrounded names like GOLDDIGGERRANT OVER what a week
Bottom line, other sibling should try to get the house rented out and they should keep me out of this! Am I being unreasonableMy anger is that my husband allows sibling to transfer work to him knowing that his hands are full and I eventually have to handle something I did not approve of initially
Last edited by angrymillionaire; 10-29-2013 at 04:33 PM..
The SO bought a house in combination with his brother & sister. As though that was already not a bad idea, the brother passed on. Now he co owns it with the sister & deceased brother's ""wifey"" ( not wife)
Doesn't belong here.
not sure where this belongs, but it doesn't go on this forum.
It's his money, and frankly, who cares what he does with it.
You wanted to leave him last week, but decided against it, and now you care about the money?
It's his money, and frankly, who cares what he does with it.
You wanted to cheat on him last week, but decided against it, and now you care about the money?
I''m still in the marriage as I mentioned previously. We are working on it. Not sure what your question is
What I got out of this is that your husband wants you to help out with a house he bought with his siblings, and one died and the other one isn't doing anything? Well, I suppose it's not your responsibility and you don't HAVE to do anything.
This is about as seriously as I can answer a thread started by angrymillionaire.
My dad has a house he rents out. I've helped him out with it in the past when I'm not working, or when I'm only working part time. I didn't have any say in the decision to buy the house, but I don't really see what that has to do with anything. He is family, and he asked for my help. I had nothing else going on at the time, so of course I agreed to help out. He is your husband, if he wants your help with something, I don't see what the problem is. Do you have better things to do? Would you rather the house not be rented out, and he have to spend his own money on the mortgage, money he could be spending on maintaining your lifestyle (and repairing your car)? You aren't working, so maybe you can help him out in order to contribute to the household.
...Bottom line, other sibling should try to get the house rented out and they should keep me out of this! Am I being unreasonableMy anger is that my husband allows sibling to transfer work to him knowing that his hands are full and I eventually have to handle something I did not approve of initially
Just say, No, and leave the matter of getting the house rented to your husband and his sibling.
[seems simple enough]
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