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When you ask me why a man I'm married to needs approval to use his own money. It might be ""his"" but I would equate this to him being marrried and still swinging ""his"" penis to other women. It might be ""his"" but IMO marriage means you are accountable to the other person. So using your logic I guess you allow your husband to use ""his"" penis to have sex with other women? I would think not!
If you can't tell the difference between a penis and a house, you've got some issues but maybe a reason other than money that you're with your hubby
I think the real issue here is that he decided to make a joint venture with his siblings, maybe to help them out, but you don't like them and you are determined that his joint venture should be a failure, because you don't want the siblings or their widows to profit from the investment.
I'll say it again, look for a good property management company and let them do the work. Tell your husband that you know you're not cut out to be a landlord, so you wanted to find a professional to manage the property, to be sure he gets the most he can from his investment.
I have a friend who married for money and didn't realize how much work it was to have to act like she was in love all the time. Her new hubby put her on a budget that was less than her spending money before she got married and last I heard, she was a pretty unhappy camper.
The SO bought a house in combination with his brother & sister. As though that was already not a bad idea, the brother passed on. Now he co owns it with the sister & deceased brother's ;wifeyAnyway doe, for reasons I do not understand hubby & sister want to keep house for themselves as family property. Now what pisses me off is that my husband has to do all the work with renting out this house. Keep in mind this is a house I did not approve be bought in the first place and now my SO is too ``busy with work`` and since I lost my job`` I should try to get the house rented out``Keep in mind this a house I did not want him to buy anyways. I feel like other sibling is slacking off and now I´m being burdened. And important side note, the sibling calls me a ``gold digger`` so why should I relieve my husband of what is supposed to be his sibling job especially if they have colorful offensive ungrounded names like GOLDDIGGERRANT OVER what a week
Bottom line, other sibling should try to get the house rented out and they should keep me out of this! Am I being unreasonableMy anger is that my husband allows sibling to transfer work to him knowing that his hands are full and I eventually have to handle something I did not approve of initially
So you married a guy who invested into a piece of property (potential income) and you're complaining because you're being asked to HELP him? Who gives a crap what his sister and/or SIL are doing? How should that affect YOUR actions? He is not their husband. He is YOUR husband! Prove you're not a gold digger. Your husband's hands are full. Yours are empty. Are you kidding me? What kind of wife, who is not working or disabled, would spit in the face of someone she "claimed" to honor?
Seriously, I don't know you and I haven't followed your posts, like some others here, but you SOUND like a gold digger! If I'd have treated my husband like this, you can bet we wouldn't have lasted as long as we have. Maybe you should re-examine what a good wife should be to her husband.
p.s. Managing a lousy rental property temporarily is not hard work. You can ask your husband and his siblings to pay you 10% of the rent in order to manage that property if you want to make it a business transaction.
I can't believe this ridiculous post is here. Don't people think for themselves any longer without feeling a need to get on the interweb and air their souls? I know too many FB people who tell the world when they are making bathroom trips.
What I would do - contact a property management company to handle it all for him at a 10-15% cost per month. that should suit him fine and it is no longer your problem.
Huh? Who says SHE is older than HIM? Which rich guy would marry a 20 year older woman?
I was wondering the same thing.
OP story doesn't add up. It one giant fantasy world.
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but maybe a reason other than money that you're with your hubby 
You can ask your husband and his siblings to pay you 10% of the rent in order to manage that property if you want to make it a business transaction.
