Yes, and too many times to count and/or remember. I have been told I am too nice so people take advantage of me. I am getting better at trying to be more assertive and stand up for myself. It's hard for me (obviously, or I wouldn't have had to post my previous post
I know it hurts to have others use us. I do think as long as I treat others with respect and always try to do what is the right thing to do, then if others do not treat me nice, then it is their bad--not mine. I am geting too old to spend too much time dwelling on all the "wrong doings" of others, and hopefully one day I will be able to brush off things like lint on my jacket.
I hope you can, too. Life's short.