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Old 05-10-2017, 08:02 AM
 
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Nein.

Nyet.

Nada.

Non.
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Old 05-10-2017, 08:08 AM
 
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I was once really good friends with this person, but we fought and ended the friendship. I reached out to them once afterwards, and we again got into a fight. I ended up sending them like 50 messages, and they blocked me. It's been 5 months since then, and I sort of miss her friendship. I've also changed a bit in the 5 months. Should I contact them or move on? I also think I'm feeling nostalgic because they just graduated college and are moving nearby, so I don't know how much I actually miss them. I'm thinking about waiting til the end of summer and if I still feel this way, I'll contact them.
I probably wouldn't contact them. They blocked you. If they want to talk to you, they will reach out. Most likely they have moved on. You should probably move on and find some new friends.
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Old 05-10-2017, 08:20 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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I was once really good friends with this person, but we fought and ended the friendship. I reached out to them once afterwards, and we again got into a fight. I ended up sending them like 50 messages, and they blocked me.
OMG. Do not EVER do that again.
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Old 05-10-2017, 08:24 AM
 
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If I still have this urge after summer, I'll bit the bullet.
She's made it clear she wants no contact. Have some respect and leave her alone.
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Old 05-10-2017, 08:24 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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If I still have this urge after summer, I'll bit the bullet.


Don't.

Not every "urge" you have is one you should indulge.

That is a very self-centered outlook.
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Old 05-10-2017, 08:35 AM
 
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The only person you should be contacting is a therapist.
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Old 05-10-2017, 08:38 AM
 
Location: 415->916->602
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sounds like a good idea to me...
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Old 05-10-2017, 08:44 AM
 
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She's made it clear she wants no contact. Have some respect and leave her alone.


I have for 5 months, and i'll probably leave her alone for another 8 months. I mean, it's not like I slept with her boyfriend or actually did something to her. She told me she was going to ignore me, and I had a pretty childish response, but we were really close at some point. I think it's a kind of petty thing to end a friendship over.


I mean, if she doesn't respond to my message, there isn't really that much one can do.
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Old 05-10-2017, 08:46 AM
 
Location: In an indoor space
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OP - She blocked you for a reason or more.

Continuing trying to contact her would be nothing short of harassment and potentially accused of being a head-hunter.


I'll tell you no no no no no-no-no-no
No no no no no-no-no-no
No no no no no
Don't hurt her now for her love probably belongs to someone else
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Old 05-10-2017, 08:48 AM
 
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OP - She blocked you for a reason or more.

Continuing trying to contact her would be nothing short of harassment and potentially accused of being a head-hunter.


I'll tell you no no no no no-no-no-no
No no no no no-no-no-no
No no no no no
Don't hurt her now for her love probably belongs to someone else


we weren't dating. I'm female too. I don't care if she has a boyfriend.
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