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Old 05-11-2017, 02:36 PM
 
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OP: Do you have a drinking or gambling problem?
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Old 05-11-2017, 03:02 PM
 
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we had a fight. Well I had said I didn't really want to be friends anymore, but I was still talking to her. She got really angry at this. she said she was going to ignore me. I sent her like 50 texts because I hate being ignored. She blocked me. I was pretty indifferent at that time.


we fought before and she blocked me, but we made up and I got unblocked. She once unfriended me on facebook because she thought I called her ugly. so, that can give you a reference to how she views things. I mostly just desire to be facebook friends again so I can see what's up with her life. Maybe hang out once a year.
Are you a grown-up?
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Old 05-11-2017, 03:47 PM
 
Location: Southwest Washington State
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I was once really good friends with this person, but we fought and ended the friendship. I reached out to them once afterwards, and we again got into a fight. I ended up sending them like 50 messages, and they blocked me. It's been 5 months since then, and I sort of miss her friendship. I've also changed a bit in the 5 months. Should I contact them or move on? I also think I'm feeling nostalgic because they just graduated college and are moving nearby, so I don't know how much I actually miss them. I'm thinking about waiting til the end of summer and if I still feel this way, I'll contact them.
Please take the not so subtle hint. This person does not want to hear from you again. So, don't contact her.

It might not be a bad thing to revisit your fight to see where you probably offended her or hurt her feelings. If you do so, and you realize you are at fault, then you might send a sincere written apology, either via snail mail or email, if you think she would receive it.

But after that, nothing. It sounds to me like you burned that bridge. Now you have to live on the other side.
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Old 05-11-2017, 03:56 PM
 
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No.
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Old 05-11-2017, 04:39 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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Fuggeddaboutit!
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Old 05-11-2017, 04:51 PM
 
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Old 05-11-2017, 04:58 PM
 
Location: Saint John, IN
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You need to move on before this person calls the police for you stalking them,!
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Old 05-11-2017, 05:33 PM
 
Location: The New England part of Ohio
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I was once really good friends with this person, but we fought and ended the friendship. I reached out to them once afterwards, and we again got into a fight. I ended up sending them like 50 messages, and they blocked me. It's been 5 months since then, and I sort of miss her friendship. I've also changed a bit in the 5 months. Should I contact them or move on? I also think I'm feeling nostalgic because they just graduated college and are moving nearby, so I don't know how much I actually miss them. I'm thinking about waiting til the end of summer and if I still feel this way, I'll contact them.
NO! They BLOCKED YOU. Stop messaging and take the hint.
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Old 05-11-2017, 11:00 PM
 
Location: Long Neck , DE
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I was once really good friends with this person, but we fought and ended the friendship. I reached out to them once afterwards, and we again got into a fight. I ended up sending them like 50 messages, and they blocked me. It's been 5 months since then, and I sort of miss her friendship. I've also changed a bit in the 5 months. Should I contact them or move on? I also think I'm feeling nostalgic because they just graduated college and are moving nearby, so I don't know how much I actually miss them. I'm thinking about waiting til the end of summer and if I still feel this way, I'll contact them.
MOVE ON
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Old 05-12-2017, 05:45 AM
 
Location: az
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I had a friend like the OP. I try to be polite and explained I was busy and no longer wanted to hang out with them.

Well... that just wouldn't do. He continuously tried to engage me but I wouldn't take the bait.

After a year he finally got the message.

Here is a good link on such people and how to best deal with them:
Hoovering
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