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Old 05-12-2017, 01:38 PM
 
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ok I sent them 50 messages in a fight. and really their phone broke so they couldn't respond, and I thought I was being ignored and well, I behaved childishly.
How would you know if their phone broke?

Leave them alone, before you end up as others have said with a restraining order.

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It would kind of scare me if someone sent me 50 messages. That is over kill. It really is. Behaving childish is a red flag also. You should try to work on maturity and maybe get some counseling. Then move on and try to make other, new friends. This person has no interest in being part of your life anymore.

^^^^^this.

And learn from this, in regards to how you treat people going forward.
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Old 05-12-2017, 08:19 PM
 
Location: Canada
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No!
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Old 05-12-2017, 08:38 PM
 
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dude. You're literally planning 4 months in advance for when you'll pick up harassing her where you left off.
+1.
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Old 05-14-2017, 07:12 AM
 
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ok I sent them 50 messages in a fight. and really their phone broke so they couldn't respond, and I thought I was being ignored and well, I behaved childishly.
So you sent 50 messages to fight.

Then you felt ignored because you couldn't fight some more.

So then you reacted inappropriately which you believe is where the childishness started?
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Old 05-14-2017, 07:41 AM
 
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So OP ... the nearly unanimous resounding answer amongst the C-D collective has been HELL NO.

Tell the truth ... you're still planning to contact her at some point, aren't you?
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Old 05-14-2017, 03:23 PM
 
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I'll toss another 'No" on top of the giant heap already here.
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Old 05-14-2017, 05:53 PM
 
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50 messages? Go lord we've got a stage 5 clinger here.

Tough messages are those where you have to look at yourself.
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Old 05-14-2017, 10:17 PM
 
Location: Lexington, Kentucky
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No.
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Old 05-15-2017, 04:44 AM
 
Location: Florida
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If op was getting no response, it would be interesting to know how she knew the phone had supposedly "broken"
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Old 05-15-2017, 05:48 AM
 
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i think people are being overly hard on you with the over messaging things.

I've had break ups where the other person left things all twisted and open ended. and i over messaged.
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