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I think it is the majority, just like black people that speak unintelligibly, wear saggy flashy clothes, and are loud are the majority. There's great black people, and I'm sure there's great gay people, but they're not the majority. Every gay person I've ever been exposed to acts like what I described. They're bringing down their community, just like uneducated black people bring down their community. I wouldn't hate gays if I wasn't subjected to their behavior. regardless of how I feel, I believe in equal rights for everyone, period.
To ask other people to support something that goes against God and people morals.? What the gay are really asking is support of their fallen life style.
That's why!
Who is asking you to "support" it?
If you are married did you have your wife tested for virginity before your wedding with a firing squad at the ready if she wasn't?
Hey, like I said, I'm all for that. But, the gay men I have to deal with are not ANYTHING like the straight men in my everyday life. Gay men (in my personal experience) are over-sexualized and act like teenage girls in a grown mans body. They talk with a slur, call everyone "b*tch, listen to crappy pop music, and always wanna go clubbing. Now you're gonna say "just don't hang around them", well sometimes I have to tolerate things that annoy me to be with people I actually do like or care about, it's life and the reality of being a social human being in their 20's. But don't try and tell me there isn't a gay culture, and there's "no difference". I don't know you, maybe you're a normal man who happens to be gay and doesn't wear their sexuality on their sleeve, but that makes you the exception to the rule.
If you didn't spend so much time in Gay bars you wouldn't have so much contact with them.
A far majority of Gay men you wouldn't be able to pick out in a crowd UNLESS you were out looking.
Hey, like I said, I'm all for that. But, the gay men I have to deal with are not ANYTHING like the straight men in my everyday life. Gay men (in my personal experience) are over-sexualized and act like teenage girls in a grown mans body. They talk with a slur, call everyone "b*tch, listen to crappy pop music, and always wanna go clubbing. Now you're gonna say "just don't hang around them", well sometimes I have to tolerate things that annoy me to be with people I actually do like or care about, it's life and the reality of being a social human being in their 20's. But don't try and tell me there isn't a gay culture, and there's "no difference". I don't know you, maybe you're a normal man who happens to be gay and doesn't wear their sexuality on their sleeve, but that makes you the exception to the rule.
As someone that used to be much involved in the largely gay areas of the city I know well there is a gay culture. Yes I did see that what you described.
When I first when to the gay scene I thought it would to fulfilling in every way but the only fulfilling aspect I found was only temporary pleasures. Yet since I started going to Church I found that experience more fulfilling overall than any gay bar/gay sex club. This is especially so when I became saved as a Christian.
Hey, like I said, I'm all for that. But, the gay men I have to deal with are not ANYTHING like the straight men in my everyday life. Gay men (in my personal experience) are over-sexualized and act like teenage girls in a grown mans body. They talk with a slur, call everyone "b*tch, listen to crappy pop music, and always wanna go clubbing. Now you're gonna say "just don't hang around them", well sometimes I have to tolerate things that annoy me to be with people I actually do like or care about, it's life and the reality of being a social human being in their 20's. But don't try and tell me there isn't a gay culture, and there's "no difference". I don't know you, maybe you're a normal man who happens to be gay and doesn't wear their sexuality on their sleeve, but that makes you the exception to the rule.
What you described is the stereotype gay man, not all gay men, as you said and not lesbians. I know what you are talking about that many gay men talk with an inflection to their voice, almost over feminized. I am not that type and do not hang out with them, though do know them. They do not represent all gays and should not be the reason gays are denied marriage, but they seem to be the poster example for gays that we all get catagorized under. I am the type of gay man that scares gay men, I get along great with straight men and lesbians oddly. I can impersonate a redneck, but cannot do gay for the life of me. Lesbians know off the bat that I am gay because I do not make an over the top try to make them straight, most straight men I know do not know I am gay unless they ask and I tell them.
What you described is the stereotype gay man, not all gay men, as you said and not lesbians. I know what you are talking about that many gay men talk with an inflection to their voice, almost over feminized. I am not that type and do not hang out with them, though do know them. They do not represent all gays and should not be the reason gays are denied marriage, but they seem to be the poster example for gays that we all get catagorized under. I am the type of gay man that scares gay men, I get along great with straight men and lesbians oddly. I can impersonate a redneck, but cannot do gay for the life of me. Lesbians know off the bat that I am gay because I do not make an over the top try to make them straight, most straight men I know do not know I am gay unless they ask and I tell them.
Well then that's great, you're your own person. And to the bolded, there is no reason that gays should be denied marriage or any equal rights. Sure, I expressed my opinions that the stereotypical gay man annoys me, but that's hardly ground for being denied a right. Damn a government that denies personal or equal rights.
You know why equality for all gays would be GREAT?!?! Because if they get equal rights, they'll stop pushing their culture in our faces and we can all live out lives. I'm all for legalizing gay marriage.
Hey, like I said, I'm all for that. But, the gay men I have to deal with are not ANYTHING like the straight men in my everyday life. Gay men (in my personal experience) are over-sexualized and act like teenage girls in a grown mans body. They talk with a slur, call everyone "b*tch, listen to crappy pop music, and always wanna go clubbing. Now you're gonna say "just don't hang around them", well sometimes I have to tolerate things that annoy me to be with people I actually do like or care about, it's life and the reality of being a social human being in their 20's. But don't try and tell me there isn't a gay culture, and there's "no difference". I don't know you, maybe you're a normal man who happens to be gay and doesn't wear their sexuality on their sleeve, but that makes you the exception to the rule.
Wait a minute now? Since when is going "clubbing" exclusive to only gay men? I'm as straight as they come, and I can tell you that in my early 20s I along with other friends always partied in the party district in Cleveland that was known as The Flats! It was a great way to meet women. A lot of good times were had too! Though it was always better when the club had a higher ratio of women than men, because who wants to hang out a sausage party?
Wait a minute now? Since when is going "clubbing" exclusive to only gay men? I'm as straight as they come, and I can tell you that in my early 20s I along with other friends always partied in the party district in Cleveland that was known as The Flats! It was a great way to meet women. A lot of good times were had too! Though it was always better when the club had a higher ratio of women than men, because who wants to hang out a sausage party?
Clubs suck, sure you can meet women there, but they're idiots. Clubs play garbage music, are packed and uncomfortable, and serve overpriced drinks. I'll take a calm brewery with a nice live folk band thank you.
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