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Originally Posted by 2sleepy
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I have a little girl in heaven
In 1995, I got a D&C that was orignially scheduled as an abortion at Planned Parenthood
But I mis-carried
Because I was calm, they eventually renigged and told me it was a girl
I knew something was VERY WRONG with my body and the baby so I wanted it aborted.
I prayed alot
I am glad I suffered less trauma knowing it was a DNC, BUT I know i wouldve killed her anyhow
Not because I was evil, but uneducated understanding that this was a human life
With a heartbeat
I was told it was a blob
It wasn't. It had fingers, toes, toenails, etc..
The people at PP were not very smart. They eventually do tell the truth, or at least they did with me
But you need to stay calm and ask.
I didn't know what a D&C was.
I was told that there were remains left inside me after the miscarrage a few days prior.
Some vacuum like thing
The pain of miscarrage was akin to labor pain. Huge contractions I laid on my bathroom floor
I paid NOTHING. Nor would I have paid for the abortion.
I showed up telling them I miscarried
My husband was more upset at hearing the news than I was
I wished he had not been in the room to hear them describe this as a baby.
And not as a blob in which I used that term.
I was wrong
As we entered the Clinic, there were three people holding up signs
That was enough that I knew this would never happen again
So those signs worked