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I never had a gay relationship, because God showed me through humbling me, that homosexuality is not the way to go.
I could have very well turned completely gay, but I chose to follow God instead.
Oh really? he showed you? did he come down and have coffee with you? Look. You can't pray the gay away. Anyone who thinks they can is just fooling themselves in a desperate attempt to fit into the mainstream.
[quote=JGY;6180033]Yeah but I have lots of feelings, I choose to ignore them though. Once I commit to a woman, I will give her my undying love.
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THAT'S right and healthy! Got feelings? Ignore them! Ignore your body and your soul and do what your church tells you is 'right.'
I feel so sad for you.
Just to let everyone know here, I at one time identified as being gay. I no longer hold that belief. I do believe that homosexuality is a product of nurture and environment and I do believe that there is alot of choice when it comes to this issue.
I don't believe that gays were born that way.
I believe in traditional marriage and I will help in any way possible to keep it that way.
You can't choose your sexual orientation and what made you 'change' to heterosexuality. Homosexuals who 'switch' to heterosexuality tend to be suppressing their true sexuality. Also, why are you so against gay marriage, how does a homosexual couple in a committed relationship infringe on your freedom by having the ability to get married.
I don't have to give you my sexual history, but if I did you would be surprised and might change your tune.
I was almost gay, I even went so far as to embrace the gay identity, but I chose not to follow through on it to its conclusion. It is funny you are saying that I am not gay, while other gays on other sites swear I am gay and was born that way, and am in denial. So which is it?
How is someone 'almost' gay. Can you be 'almost' heterosexual. How do you know that you were gay if you were never in a gay relationship. Someone's sexual history has nothing to do with whether they're gay/straight/bi. Homosexuality is when someone has romantic attractions to someone of the same sex. A homosexual can be celibate or never have had sex before. Also, what is this 'gay identity' and what is heterosexual identity then, homosexuality isn't some kind of organization, it is someone's sexual orientation.
Just to let everyone know here, I at one time identified as being gay. I no longer hold that belief. I do believe that homosexuality is a product of nurture and environment and I do believe that there is alot of choice when it comes to this issue.
I don't believe that gays were born that way.
I believe in traditional marriage and I will help in any way possible to keep it that way.
No, Mr. Ignorance. Not everyone has a choice. If they had a choice, would they want to be picked on and HATED by people around them?
If someone had the choice, I am sure they would pick being straight before being gay. It is very hard to be gay and deal with it.
I suggest your take your narrow minded views somewhere else.
How do you know that you were gay if you were never in a gay relationship
Well, that's pretty easy to answer. Everyone has feelings and attractions. You don't have to try out being gay and then being straight to know which one you prefer.
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Also, what is this 'gay identity' and what is heterosexual identity then, homosexuality isn't some kind of organization, it is someone's sexual orientation.
Oh, but for many, it is their identity.
When a man or woman first "comes out of the closet", it can be a good thing to strongly identify with other gays. Eventually, some move on, and their sexual orientation becomes less important; others want to immerse themselves in "gayness". They have a right to do that, of course, but I happen to think it can be really limiting.
You can't choose your sexual orientation and what made you 'change' to heterosexuality. Homosexuals who 'switch' to heterosexuality tend to be suppressing their true sexuality. Also, why are you so against gay marriage, how does a homosexual couple in a committed relationship infringe on your freedom by having the ability to get married.
JGY needs to see the movie "Far From Heaven", 2002 starring Julianne Moore & Dennis Quaid.
Just to let everyone know here, I at one time identified as being gay. I no longer hold that belief. I do believe that homosexuality is a product of nurture and environment and I do believe that there is alot of choice when it comes to this issue.
I don't believe that gays were born that way.
I believe in traditional marriage and I will help in any way possible to keep it that way.
It's good to know that we have someone with us that knows more than all of the doctors and scientists.,
Perhaps you need to change career paths. Truth is, you are still gay, you're just trying to fool yourself... and your wife... It won't work....
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