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Old 06-16-2013, 12:57 PM
 
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Both of my grandmothers were 44 when they had my mother and father. I have known people who have gotten pregnant as old as 46, so I would say 50 is probably the cut off.

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This woman at church had triplets at 46 and they were unplanned. Not sure if I would want triplets at 46 but still kind of amazing it happened (and yes completely natural as she thought she was done with kids).
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Old 06-19-2013, 08:39 PM
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I think that it's a personal choice as long as you have the finances and love to raise a child.

Older mothers, mothers over 35, need to know that Down's Syndrome is a possibility.

If it's a planned, wanted child, it's really no one's business.

I'm more concerned with "teen parents".
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Old 06-19-2013, 08:55 PM
 
Location: S. Florida
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I don’t think anyone has the right to judge someone else’s reproductive choices. I had my son at 32, and my daughter was adopted when I had just turned 38. I had some family members say I was "too old" for a second baby, never mind adopting one. My husband and I disagreed, and moved forward with our daughter's adoption. She is now 8, and my son is 14.

Children are a blessing whenever they come.
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Old 06-21-2013, 08:14 AM
 
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I don't care what other people do. That being said, I had my youngest when I was 25, and now that I'm 35, I can't imagine doing it all over again. Watching a friend's toddler for a few hours just exasperates and exhausts me. I had the patience and energy when I was younger, but now I really just don't. Of course, that could be because I'm out of the diapers/nursing/potty training stage... if I were just starting out now, I guess I wouldn't be so annoyed at the whole proposition, LOL.
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Old 06-21-2013, 08:32 PM
 
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This woman at church had triplets at 46 and they were unplanned. Not sure if I would want triplets at 46 but still kind of amazing it happened (and yes completely natural as she thought she was done with kids).
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Old 06-21-2013, 10:00 PM
 
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Personally...40. That's how old I was when I realized I was "too old" to even consider it again. Your mileage may vary.
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Old 06-23-2013, 09:53 AM
 
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This woman at church had triplets at 46 and they were unplanned. Not sure if I would want triplets at 46 but still kind of amazing it happened (and yes completely natural as she thought she was done with kids).
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Because she had triplets at 46 years old ,
personally, I would go with three times the "eek faces".

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and I'm not even sure that is enough!
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Old 06-23-2013, 09:57 AM
 
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There is no age cut off...I know of woman who had children in their mid forties...usually a pleasant accident or miracle. If you are healthy and energetic go for it. As a kid I remember my mother going into a panic when she had passed 40...she was pacing about the house in hysterics..She was pregnant...It all worked out - other than my youngest brother who is now a middle age prick who does not talk to his siblings..
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Old 07-16-2013, 12:02 AM
 
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The woman at church was not happy (and no, she wasn't trying to get pregnant at all, she thought she was done with babies). I think it would be nice to have twins though in a year or two, preferably one of each and then be done with having babies.
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Old 07-16-2013, 08:52 AM
 
Location: Southlake. Don't judge me.
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The woman at church was not happy (and no, she wasn't trying to get pregnant at all, she thought she was done with babies). I think it would be nice to have twins though in a year or two, preferably one of each and then be done with having babies.
We thought one kid at age 45 was a whole lotta kid. We did discuss possibly trying for another, but decided against it. Although we sometimes wonder about that decision, we just had two other children over for a sleepover and were reminded that more than one kid is a LOT of work.

Triplets at age 46? The mind boggles, especially if that's a "surprise".
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